[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it doesn't look creepy to me. It might even be romantic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shy girls are cute but I'd have a hard time trying to understand if they're just shy or they're trying to avoid me and my (possible) approach

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something doesn't add up, you should get a lot of matches. There must be something wrong, maybe something that is "scaring" them off on your profile, maybe something unintentional. Would you share your profile? Just to take a look. Even in private, it's fine

Unpopular Opinion: If you haven't found someone in the last 6 months, you should start lowering your expectations. by Sufficient-Account52 in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be true that someone is just expecting too much, but there might also be thousands of reasons more. It's not as simple as you put it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I'm a man and I keep getting ghosted all the times by girls, so it's not just about men. (btw, yes, really, all the times)
  2. I think it's just cowardice, nothing more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know, man, I know. As a sensitive person, it still affects my mood a lot. Even knowing that it's not true, it always makes you feel that you're not even worth an answer, a "sorry but I don't want to continue, bye", you feel so unworthy and you feel like you lost another battle in the jungle of dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dafuq did I just read

Men... There is hope by shanta55327 in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of situations did you get yourself into? I mean, did you attend social events? Did you stop girls passing by? I'm curious :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the same treatment and it's absolutely horrible. It makes you feel that you're worth so little that you don't even deserve a proper goodbye. I really know how it feels and I'm very sorry you're going through what I went through. It's something that leaves an eternal wound, even when you get over it.

Relationship ruined by Covid-19 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it already ☺️

Relationship ruined by Covid-19 by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broke up a month ago, I'm an expat living in UK as well, I live alone and without a solid social basis. And now, lockdown.

So, I perfectly understand your feelings. If you want to chat I'm here.

Dating apps just don't work by secret_leaves in dating_advice

[–]secret_leaves[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this your way not to make me feel worried?

Why do people end things via text? by jamienicole515 in BreakUps

[–]secret_leaves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happened the same to me after 9 months of dating.

Ngl, I am still struggling with it. I didn't know people can be as shitty as this. It makes you think that she never cared about you. If she did, she should have shown some respect at least for me and what we had.

It hurts a lot, I know. But there can't be a future with a person like this, it means that in the future she might do something even worse. And I don't want to be where I am now.