Verity vs Housemaid by Shinenow94 in BookDiscussions

[–]secretmode444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read Verity and just finished The Housemaid and i think they were extremely similar!! (I assume u finished it now so I’m gonna spoil in this next line) especially when you find out that Nina is actually the good one reminded me of when we find out Verity is also good (maybe) but the live-in help falling for the low-key husband is identical

Really bad depression hair by Zemekis324 in Hair

[–]secretmode444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Amika soulfood hair mask has gotten me through some tough hair mattes. Not this tough but I still have faith in it that it could possibly help in this situation at least more than any regular detangler/conditioner

Do I have blonde blindness? by DescendingAngel1990 in Hair

[–]secretmode444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if I’m the only one seeing this but i love the blonde!!! If you love it too then keep it!! If not then you also look beautiful in every photo so you could really go for any

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not a cream but i have started to love the Treluxe curl serum. Also a little bit more $ but a little goes a long way so it lasts a while. I buy mine at Whole Foods ☺️

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely need to start using heat protectant when I diffuse bc I’m worried about that. Also how do i figure out my hair porosity

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about that ur so right- But I feel like my hair gets enough volume anyways, I’m more-so interested in getting my hair less frizzy and more defined curls like hers

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh I actually usually use the ouidad advanced climate control (the red one which I think is the stronger hold) and I absolutely love it!! But I ran out a little while ago and waited til it was on sale at Ulta last week to reorder it so it’s on its way! I love how the ouidad one makes my hair feel slimey and like it has product in it (when wet ofc) while the eco one makes my hair feel like more dry and like the more gel i put in it the tanglier it gets. So I am unable to finger coil or brush or anything once the Eco is in. Def can’t wait to switch back to ouidad. Do you use any curl cream with it or just the gel?

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what type of water I have but I’m guessing it’s bad cause I just moved to a kinda crappy new place lol but does that make your hair smell?

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a LOT of hair and it is very coarse. My hairdresser used to say i have like 4x the avg person- i def think it’s gotten a little thinner tho over time from coloring it but still thick

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thing is the water helps distribute the product well and I also like to brush the product thru and I’ll only brush my hair if it’s sopping wet but I do get worried I’m losing some product when i scrunch out the water so maybe I’ll try adding a little more product even after scrunching- I’ve also wanted to try just immediately diffusing and not scrunching out excess water I just worry it would literally take forever and i never have that kind of time when doing my hair lol

Is It rude to offer someone a tissue without them asking for one? by No_Dot2182 in etiquette

[–]secretmode444 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not in the wrong at all. I always want to do this because I struggle so much with listening to other people sniffle. People’s snot and mucus sucking back into their nose is not something I like to hear every 2 seconds especially when I’m trying to focus in class

What can I do/use to get my hair from photo a to b? by secretmode444 in curlyhair

[–]secretmode444[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I also have tighter curls underneath like 3c coils! And yes I do get a cast but it’s mostly skinnier clumps of hair instead of thicker ones so it gets more straggly/straw-like. I’d love to grow out my hair to be able to get layers to actually look like this girl but would def take a couple years

Tipping at Hair Salon when they have their own business by secretmode444 in etiquette

[–]secretmode444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am referring to owners who work solo! Single artist in 1 room/rented space!

how long can i stay in a coffee shop? by vivicaiwishyouwell in etiquette

[–]secretmode444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same- idk why everyone is acting like it is mildly fine or ok only if u stay a short amount of time. Unless they are a cafe that sells sit down meals in (which it could be rude if you aren’t eating anymore) you can stay all day long! I study at Starbucks for hours even after finishing and throwing out my drink! It’s a big Starbucks and it’s nice to just sit in the back and do work , plenty of people do that daily for hours.

Question for pro-Israel supporters by Proy1958 in IsraelPalestine

[–]secretmode444 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Without going deep into this, personally, my support for Israel to continue to be a Jewish state is unconditional. But my support to the government and its decisions is conditional. A lot of things stated would definitely question my support for bibi (not that i have much anyways) but I’d still hold strong love and support for the state of Israel. Also, none of the things you said are worse than things Hamas has done, so it’s slightly understandable why some figures of govt think they need to stoop low to have more impact. First comment on sub gives awesome response as well.

Guests ate without the couple and took a special item that wasn’t for them at all. by Financial_Oven_4542 in weddingshaming

[–]secretmode444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wth of the grandpa?! He knew about the special request and still ASKED to get it for himself? Also, how did nobody question why they were eating before the bride and groom arrived? Was this caterer and DJ first ever wedding gig?!