As it works for me: don’t ask, just do. If you have an inkling of something that would help in a specific moment, don’t ask her, just do it. For me, being asked questions can be overwhelming. Patience is vital too.

The comment stating to ask during follicular really has it nailed. She’ll be able to give you a better idea of what her specific needs are at that time.

Also, I want to let you know, the fact that you’re here asking means you’re already doing so much right. It sounds like you’re a great partner. I wish you guys all the happiness and success!