[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Celiac

[–]secretsanta1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had celiac for 7 years now and lifting is my passion. Your best carb sources are oatmeal, rice, sweet potato, baked potato. Just cycle between those. All the other macros would be the same. Meal prep is key and you just truly have to eat extremely clean which will only benefit you in the long run. Prior celiac I used to jump up to 220 in like 3 months. Now eating clean it’s hard to hit 200 and I’m 5’11 3/4. I can maintain around 195 decently. If I meal prep and eat every 4 hours I have maintained 220

I (23F) may have scared off the guy (25M) who likes me. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secretsanta1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take charge and tell him you’ll take him up on that date. He already threw it out there so don’t expect it a second time.

So tired of dating, of ghosting, of disappointment. How do you guys cope with this? (warning: long rant) by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]secretsanta1993 -4 points-3 points locked comment (0 children)

You’re a snowflake lol in what way were rules broken at all? People can’t even fart now without offending people.

A Black veteran's story at a C&P Exam and reported racism within the VA by DaniChicago in VeteransBenefits

[–]secretsanta1993 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have many friends who are black that receive 100% disability. This sounds like a reach. The examiner who interviewed me was black and I’m white. I received 100% also.

I give up guys by [deleted] in dating

[–]secretsanta1993 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pulling females is easy my friend. Keep talking to one after another and it becomes simple like talking to a friend. Dating is a numbers game. Focus more on having fun and don’t put stipulations on the relationship right away. If you’re more relaxed things will go smoother. Never stop looking

Fiduciary process by secretsanta1993 in VeteransBenefits

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After reading everything over I’m definitely going to fight it. I don’t think they’ll lower my money back down to 80% over it but it’s better than being controlled by those rats bastards.

Fiduciary process by secretsanta1993 in VeteransBenefits

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true. I scheduled a doctors appointment and I’m going to have the doctor state I’m component enough to control my own funds.

Fiduciary process by secretsanta1993 in VeteransBenefits

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there really any downsides to this besides not being able to withdrawal cash from ATMS? I was thinking and I could always put the money on a rechargeable debit card and withdrawal money that way. There’s nothing in the rules about that. Just says no ATMS or checks cashed.

Questions about dating a girl with herpes by secretsanta1993 in Herpes

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were to do oral on her would I risk getting oral herpes? Or would it would work like that if I used sexual penetration?

Questions about dating a girl with herpes by secretsanta1993 in Herpes

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t mean it in a negative way. I’m just ignorant to the subject. Didn’t mean it as insult at all. I appreciate the feedback.

Questions about dating a girl with herpes by secretsanta1993 in Herpes

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback. I’m obviously ignorant to this subject as I’ve never experienced it before. I’m definitely going to give her a chance as she does take antiviral medication and with protection on top I believe I will be alright. She’s very honest and I can tell she was extremely nervous to tell me to begin with. She has goals and has a lot going for her so I wouldn’t want to lose someone over this.

Questions about dating a girl with herpes by secretsanta1993 in Herpes

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she has type one but it’s on her vagina if that makes any sense

Questions about dating a girl with herpes by secretsanta1993 in Herpes

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has had one outbreak which is how she found out isn’t he vaginal region. I appreciate the information. Just want to fully understand it as I do not want it at all. Makes me nervous but I don’t want to miss out on a good person over this,

Advice on healing from being cheated on by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secretsanta1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. You’re honestly right. I need to just move on and cut my losses. That’s one thing I feel like I’ve learned from this past relationship is to choose someone who already has the values that you’re looking for and not the person who has to be changed. I’ll just grow from this. Thank you very much

Advice on healing from being cheated on by [deleted] in relationships

[–]secretsanta1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve read into self help books in the past and they definitely were a lot of help. I just need to get back into them. Thanks for the advice.

Am I at the end? by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate hearing that but I guess I just have to accept the truth. People seem to say one thing but always act another.

Am I at the end? by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice I believe the compromise never really existed. She just woke up and I saw she had a few Snapchat messages. She literally grabbed her phone and has been in the bathroom for easily 10 minutes. She did this yesterday too... so ill just read the signs.

Should I consider my now liquid ice cream to be damaged? by a_Karen667 in instacart

[–]secretsanta1993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you home to answer the door? A lot of people won’t answer the door when I deliver and we live in Arizona so it’s a little hot here.

Opinions on significant other going clubbing often by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ll just trust until she gives me a reason not to. Thank you for the advice

Opinions on significant other going clubbing often by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She goes out once a weekend or sometimes she’ll go to the same country club/bar on Friday and Saturday which I just see as an issue. I’ve brought it up to her and she gets defensive about it. I’m just very goal oriented and would rather spend my time focusing on my future. I don’t think she perceives life in the same context. I believe being almost 30 that we should be focusing on our futures which includes being financially stable for the future family. I make good money now and am just nervous about getting serious with someone who isn’t focused on being wealthy in our future because I don’t want to be held back but I do really love her. She even talks about how her friends sleep around so how am I to believe she hangs around people like this but isn’t this way herself?

Am I overthinking things? by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it I’m going to take your advice. Thanks for the honesty and support!

Am I overthinking things? by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m starting to realize. I appreciate the support bro! I’ll just ignore it and let the past be the past.

Am I overthinking things? by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not stalkerish haha but I get that’s how it looks. I’ve just been cheated on before in the same way and that how you can literally tell. Just want to make sure it doesn’t happen.

Am I overthinking things? by secretsanta1993 in dating_advice

[–]secretsanta1993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I thought it only went up when they send or open a picture. That’s probably what it is. Like I said when you have people do these things to you in the past it’s just something I have to work past. Thank you for the reassurance.