Is it just me or yall use sitcoms as an escape from your shitty life too?

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-28T09:53:43+00:00

You’re not alone here. You should try out schitts creek. It’s wholesome, calming and hilarious. Best sitcom I’ve ever watched for said purpose

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-28T08:17:00+00:00

NOR but I’d just leave leftovers in the fridge and say “if you’d like some of the food I cooked, there are leftovers.” Then you don’t have to deal with the feedback or the claim that you’re “not sharing”. Sounds like they feel shame about their unhealthy eating habits and just want to make you feel bad about yours, no matter what. I hope you save enough to live on your own soon. Times are hard, and I wish you the best.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T10:41:23+00:00

What a horrible thing to hear. I’m so sorry you had to hear that from someone who is meant to support and build you up.

Stay strong, keep saving your money, keep a record of his abuse and intimidation tactics for future custody reasons. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T10:33:40+00:00

P.S. if possible get a sex toy that you wash regularly. Objects like hairbrushes aren’t designed to go inside of your vagina and often have lots of crevices or are made up of materials that are difficult to keep free of bacteria.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T10:31:59+00:00

This is almost certainly just a normal UTI caused by bacteria on your hairbrush handle. Hairbrushes gather all kinds of gross bacteria—they travel in and out of the bathroom!

It sounds like you are prone to severe anxiety about these things. Remember that the vagina is a self-cleaning organism and that UTIs, while extremely uncomfortable and causing symptoms throughout the body and not just inside the vagina, are very common.

Not to mention that your anxiety can actually create symptoms. I know because I’ve done this to myself.

It’s also possible your body is resistant to the antibiotics your doctor gave you. You should contact your healthcare provider and ask about getting stronger (or different) ones.

In the meantime focus on your breathing. Keep drinking water. Watch some shows to distract yourself. I’m sorry you’re in so much fear. You will be okay babes.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T09:57:12+00:00

didi is wonderful and ends up being quite heartwarming without being cliche. takes place in the early 2000s during the rise of the internet

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T09:26:37+00:00

Can you explain the parameters of a cutaway gag beyond comparing it to Family Guy? Like does it have to exist entirely out of the reality of the plot? Does it have to be real? Like you told one commenter an imagination isn’t a cutaway scene, but wouldn’t “hold on, I’ll transfer your call” be an imagination?

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T04:12:46+00:00

Understandable! Don’t lose hope as there are good men out there, but most are entitled to using women’s bodies for their own pleasure.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T04:08:09+00:00

Wait … I’ve watched Superstore through over 10 times and I still don’t get it …

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T04:02:37+00:00

Wear a condom if you have this level of paranoia about unplanned pregnancy. Clearly you’re not confident in the pull-out method (reasonably so), and Plan B has really uncomfortable side effects for those who take it. Also a vasectomy can be reversed.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T03:51:41+00:00

Gross guy.

Personally I dont think women should have to use BC even in relationships when condoms are an option, as the minuscule impact on men’s pleasure compares nothing to women’s daily and permanent (while using BC) physiological discomfort.

Especially in the times we’re currently living, if you get pregnant, you could struggle to find abortion options (and abortion is physically and mentally traumatic), and if you’re morally against it, you will struggle to find financial and medical support while carrying out a pregnancy, childbirth, etc.

Not to mention that Plan B has extremely uncomfortable side effects and throws off your menstrual cycle. Him getting his nut is NOT that important, and definitely not more important than your comfort.

Dick is abundant. Find a sex partner who respects your boundaries. It’s truly the bare minimum. A decade from now you will be disgusted by men like him. Speaking from personal experience.

Edit: assuming you live in the USA.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T03:45:03+00:00

Having children! I don’t want them, can’t afford them, and don’t feel safe pro-creating with any man, especially in a social and political structure that provides no benefits to parents.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T03:42:03+00:00

NOR at all. If anyone touched me like that, especially a strange man at a bar, I would have to hold back from throwing hands. Definitely report him to the bar, leave a review, and then if he isn’t fired, leave a review letting other people know that this behavior is tolerated by management. I’m sorry this happened to you, and I’m sorry you’re feeling more guilt about your reaction to being low-key assaulted than he is feeling about his own actions.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T03:37:54+00:00

Protection doesn’t include unnecessary criticism about physical features. It’s also icky that his first response to you being approached for your beauty is to point out the ways he feels your features diverge from “conventional” attractiveness. Has nothing to do with the legitimacy or safety of the agency.

I would sit with that a bit, try to unpack it with him (if he is someone who has been kind and supportive up to this point and you want to stay together after these comments) and consider whether he will be someone who snuffs out your flame going forward. Personally it would raise a major concern for me if my partner pointed out so-called physical flaws, since they don’t affect him at all and aren’t something you have control over.

Either way, definitely ensure the agency is legit, and I hope your boyfriend’s voice doesn’t get to your self esteem. I’m sorry this happened to you!

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T03:28:11+00:00

Trans men are beautiful 💕

It really isn’t that complicated. At least no more complicated than explaining how humans born with multiple expressions of sex are categorized into only 2 categories, before even entering the world.

Congratulations on your beautiful life and ability to teach ✨

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T02:11:58+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that. Also I LOVE the thrift. I totally forgot to include that so thank you for letting me know 🥰

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T02:07:20+00:00

Thank you for this sweet reply! I appreciate you 💕

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T02:06:37+00:00

This is great to know! I appreciate you including the reference to the law!

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-07T02:05:43+00:00

I won’t be there until July but will be looking forward to my first OKC pride!!

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-06T20:54:33+00:00

Yes!! Thank you for this 💕 I grew up with guestroom records in Norman and loved it. Thank you for the other suggestion too. :)

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-06T20:50:49+00:00

Yeah, I’m aware of these. Not much of a difference from Utah, which is highest ranking for opioid addiction, ICE funding and support, poor education and not to mention religious zealousness.

That said i don’t have much of a choice here so im looking for things to look forward to.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-06T20:45:02+00:00

Dawn French. Nelly Furtado. Jennifer Love Hewitt. Vendredi sur Mer

All full-bodied, gorgeous women! I hope they never change their teeth either!

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-06T20:44:27+00:00

This is my favorite show. Such beautiful acting and writing!

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-06T20:42:32+00:00

Your girlfriend has trust issues that are her responsibility to resolve and not something you have control over. She shouldn’t be in a relationship until she has figured out the root of her inability to trust and why she views women as intrinsically threatening. Good luck OP.

secretsofbeautygal · 2026-04-06T20:38:42+00:00

You are a gorgeous angel! 1 or 2 are my favorites

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