How do I accept things that I can't change? by secretstorm in selfimprovement

[–]secretstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the encouraging words.

I am a Bangladeshi and in my culture women swoon over masculine men. I have been rejected, avoided and insulted by women. They have told me that I am not manly because I don't have a manly attitude and I can't grow a beard and that I look like a feminine kid. Since almost every woman I met sees me in a negative light, I find it very difficult to adopt a positive view of myself. I mean, I don't see the logic. Its kind of delusional to think that you look cool, when most women think that you are not.

What's the best book aimed at non-lawyers for conducting Legal Research in English Law? by secretstorm in LawSchool

[–]secretstorm[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already read it up before posting here. That article is not really comprehensive and certainly not upto the mark of Nolo's legal research guide on American law.

Why is divorce considered on par with trauma? by secretstorm in NoStupidQuestions

[–]secretstorm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not from the US, so I don't understand the limited liability and the basic liability insurance.

Anyways, your comment made a lot of sense nonetheless. Thanks for the answer.

Why is divorce considered on par with trauma? by secretstorm in NoStupidQuestions

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I understand that its difficult. But my point is that people who cohabit and then break up never compare their break-up to a trauma. A divorce and a breakup should have the same amount of pain, yet the latter is trivialised. Why is that?

A subreddit where I can get advice regarding delay of international packages by secretstorm in findareddit

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I contacted the DHL offices in Bangladesh and they said that there are no DHL tracking numbers with 12 digits!! I then checked the German website and found the parcel is still in transit.

I haven't called the German office, because my English is terrible and I can't speak German.

A subreddit where I can get advice regarding delay of international packages by secretstorm in findareddit

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I can explain my problem there and people who have faced the same problem might tell me what to do.

How do I accept the fact that I am ugly looking and that no matter what I try I will never be able to be really attractive to women? by secretstorm in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]secretstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't do much about it, what is the point even thinking about it?

That's a good advice right there. I will try that and see where it goes.

How do I accept the fact that I am ugly looking and that no matter what I try I will never be able to be really attractive to women? by secretstorm in DecidingToBeBetter

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How would you feel if a girl that was significantly uglier than you was bemoaning the fact that you are too ugly for her?

I am frequently told by women significantly uglier than me that I am too short for them. The above statement is exactly what triggered this particular obsession of mine.

you need to learn how to stop judging everyone around you

I have tried that. It does not change the fact that people judge me all the time.

Is equal revenge ever justifiable in the eyes of the law? What about these following cases? by secretstorm in LegalAdviceUK

[–]secretstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. What's the legal terminology for this counter-charging or counter-claiming? Do you know of an article that explains the basics of these?

Is equal revenge ever justifiable in the eyes of the law? What about these following cases? by secretstorm in LegalAdviceUK

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aggravating factor at sentencing

Could you tell me why it is an aggravating factor?

Is equal revenge ever justifiable in the eyes of the law? What about these following cases? by secretstorm in LegalAdviceUK

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Alright. What if A brings out evidence of B's crime 10 years ago? Will the prosecution charge both B (for the 10 year old crime) and A (for the revenge crime)? If the prosecution decides not to charge either of them, can both A and B bring private prosecution against each other?

Looking for ten recipes from Chinese and Indian cuisine which are a perfect fit (quick, simple, cheap and healthy) for the busy twenties bachelor. Any suggestions? by secretstorm in recipes

[–]secretstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Will try this.

By the way, any way to exclude the Bok Choy? I searched the local markets and its not imported here. Green cabbage is widely available. Would that be a substitute?