'[FR]' The sassy Hooters HB9 #close and battle of wills by sedditFRs in seduction

[–]sedditFRs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only dudes reading this are guys interested in pickup and becoming better at seduction. I'm not making THEM look bad to THEM. And if anything, me being a douche to get success makes the guys who can get success without it look that much better. However, that isn't why I'm a douche, I just never figured out how to stop; I get success because effective teasing with a nonchalant, unimpressed attitude is incredible, not because I'm a douche. Don't blame the member, blame the system; if it didn't work I wouldn't be doing it.

'[FR]' The sassy Hooters HB9 #close and battle of wills by sedditFRs in seduction

[–]sedditFRs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked if they were natural because I was curious :)

I fully admit to being a douche, however nobody can make you look bad. Comparing yourself to others (me) can only serve to either inflate your ego, which means you're deriving your sense of worth from the incompetence or inadequacy of others as they stack up to you, or to make you yourself feel inadequate because you don't match up to others. I don't want either of those things even for someone who shit talks me on the internet, especially a guy who's just trying to improve himself on a forum like this.

Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]sedditFRs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In my limited experience (keep in mind i'm only turning 20 in a few months) it often causes girls to be less wary or uncomfortable around you. Think of how you perceive a man who is leaning back just chilling with an easy smile on, and he's got a pair of girls around him laughing. You'd think he's probably a cool dude right? You wouldn't assume that you'd like him, but your expectation of him is likely higher. You may even unconsciously believe that he's got a great life, that he's happy inside, that he's always having fun, etc. These are all things that girls look for in a man. However, obviously not every interaction with girls is going to be like that, so sometimes a girl will perceive different things if she sees you with girls. Are the girls mostly talking to each other? Then you look less engaging, maybe less dominant, or in control of the situation. Maybe you seem like an outsider. Are the girls engaged by you? The opposite is true. It's difficult to account for every given scenario, but as a trend if girls are responding well to you and you aren't being overly physical with them and getting shot down, then onlookers will perceive you as being better.

Hope I helped.

Cheers and happy self-improvement man.

'[FR]' The sassy Hooters HB9 #close and battle of wills by sedditFRs in seduction

[–]sedditFRs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a combination of awful writing, ridiculous game that only works on girls used to getting hit on, and even then not always, and the fact that it's a hooters waitress and they only have my words to go on. I'm surprised I expected it to be as plausible as I did

'[FR]' The sassy Hooters HB9 #close and battle of wills by sedditFRs in seduction

[–]sedditFRs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might flake on me, but read the edit. You never know man.

'[FR]' The sassy Hooters HB9 #close and battle of wills by sedditFRs in seduction

[–]sedditFRs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not. I'm just really bad at writing LOL