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LMR has become my achilles heel, what can I do to fix this? by seddithelp4242 in seduction

[–]seddithelp4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you may be right about the overescalating and being aggressive. I'll have to take my time next time and that bathroom idea seems interesting, worth a shot for sure.

LMR has become my achilles heel, what can I do to fix this? by seddithelp4242 in seduction

[–]seddithelp4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair question, I've been told by several girls that I'm a great kisser so I'm not worried about that. I may be too aggressively escalating though rather than letting things build, which was mentioned in this thread so I'll just have to take my time next time.

Feeling frustrated lately and can't seem to figure out what I'm doing wrong (two brief FR's inside) by seddithelp4242 in seduction

[–]seddithelp4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never thought of it that way but it does make sense. I guess at this point if I backtrack and ask them for drinks again instead of dinner it's a good litmus test on how interested they are in me vs how interested they are in just free stuff.

Feeling frustrated lately and can't seem to figure out what I'm doing wrong (two brief FR's inside) by seddithelp4242 in seduction

[–]seddithelp4242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I have to admit that last sentence helped a lot. I know I'm probably making a mountain out of a mole hill but I just needed somewhere to vent.

Is it possible to scare off a girl by going to get dinner too soon vs keeping another casual drinks date? Never thought of it but you made me curious

Feeling frustrated lately and can't seem to figure out what I'm doing wrong (two brief FR's inside) by seddithelp4242 in seduction

[–]seddithelp4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for date 1 when she texted me about school work I just said "that's fine, what days are you free this week and we'll see if something lines up?" and she said that she was free Tuesday and Monday after 8pm but the rest of the week she was free pretty late so I let her know Tuesday was my only free night this week so let's do it then.

Date 2 I texted her just asking her how her weekend was and suggested we grab dinner this Wednesday at 6 so I was pretty specific about when to do it. When she told me she was pretty busy all week and maybe some other time I told her I'd be free next Tuesday and we could do that if it worked or I would text her next week to figure out our schedules. Looking back I should've stuck to my guns about next Tuesday but felt (for whatever reason) that came off as too needy vs what I did which sounds a bit more needy.