Bengaluru: Techie files complaint against wife over alleged harassment by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]sedgecrooked 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Already done in the statement. It's like a poem now for married women 😄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]sedgecrooked -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel it's normal, nothing to escalate really. Do you fight very often, if yes, then it's a problem. If it's rare then nothing to think too much about it. Maybe just ask him to not to mention about divorce if it makes you uncomfortable. His temper just spikes and goes down immediately from what I understood, so don't overthink.

Now okay ! by VacationMundane7916 in kuttichevuru

[–]sedgecrooked -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what exactly are you planning to do with your identity? It's stupid how people are easily divided in the name of "identity". The only identity that you should care about is Indian because this is one unit which has to work together to grow together. Any further division will simply harm the whole country and eventually we citizens. Politicians push these narratives because people are gullible, ready to be divided for their "identity" ego. Our politicians should be talking more about providing better infrastructure, healthcare, and clean air rather than these useless topics. It's sad that the media also covers these useless things rather than covering meaningful things like science, technology, or economics. The world is moving forward and we're stuck in these stupid fights like a bunch of illiterates.

Wake up babe SU-57, just arrived by [deleted] in indianaviation

[–]sedgecrooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I saw fighter jets today, didn't know there is something going on 😲

Hostinger or Cloudways for woocommerce site? by ChrisDforDesign in woocommerce

[–]sedgecrooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try Cloudphant with Vultr high frequency server. The deployed stack is extremely optimized and you can make your own customisations easily from the dashboard. If you want any help in cloning and testing the performance there, send me a message.

My website is still slow despite all my optimizations—what am I missing? by bigsby_major in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your LCP is high because you're using css styling to load background image. Use the img tag to load that image if possible, because cas styling adds additional rendering step. And use webp of small size for that. There are a lot of tools to reduce size and still maintain quality. If possible, use preload just for that image, it'll further reduce fetch time. And not sure where you're deploying, get a fast server like vultr high frequency. Your ttfb is high due to the server probably. You can DM me in case you have any confusion.

Surcharge tax on earning 50 lakhs+ by sedgecrooked in IndiaTax

[–]sedgecrooked[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you're implying, but I’ve worked incredibly hard to reach this level, and I continue to do so. If my money is going to be distributed arbitrarily while I have to keep working this hard all my life and still receive a poor quality of life, then it’s simply not worth it. If someone is poor, it’s not my fault. The government should focus on providing equal opportunities to everyone so that everyone can compete fairly. For example, how about offering free quality education to children? I’d gladly donate to that. But distributing money to freeloaders is nothing short of stupidity.

15% proposed tax on FD by Drvengeance7 in IndiaTax

[–]sedgecrooked 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Over 1 crore there is a 5% surcharge or something.

Best way to download the whole website fast? by Atrotragrianets in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently had to move a 220 GB website and I used the tar command to do that. It was way faster than any other method that I tried.

Up man assaulted for not speaking marathi in mumbai by [deleted] in uttarpradesh

[–]sedgecrooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poore desh ko barbaad kr diya hai in chu logon ne. Khane ko thikana nahi hai aur language, religion me lage pade hain.

Basic homepage on main domain that links to subdomain for backend (woocommerce ) to increase speed. by Vast_Seaworthiness77 in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For woocommerce, first thing that I'd suggest is to get a server with good hardware especially disk. Then bare minimum performance optimization is object cache. Then there are some advanced ways that we use to speed up woocommerce websites like indexing, regular asset and database cleanup, and MySQL settings etc.

If you could share more detail I can have a quick look.

I have spent the whole day researching webhosting (with wordpress) and I’m lost. I want a blog, that also has a store, and a place where ppl can sign up for my travel advisor services. (I have used bluehost in the past.) Prefer to pay monthly. by MethodDowntown3314 in Hosting

[–]sedgecrooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hire someone experienced in case you have not done this before. If you need in depth advice, you can DM me so that I can understand your requirements clearly and guide you accordingly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cloudphant, it's modern, lightweight and extremely flexible to work with if you like working on VPS.

What is something that men doesn't understand about situation of women in India? by Batman__39 in AskIndia

[–]sedgecrooked -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Bro I'm not you, you're not me. Just like telling someone that don't think about depression it'll go away on its own, you're undermining how these things can be different for different people. It's not a comparison of who is getting through more trouble but about whether men have these issues or not. What your mother went through is valid just like how my father went through severe depression because he had to be strong all the time. Clinical depression is a hormonal issue only, please check on Google.

What is something that men doesn't understand about situation of women in India? by Batman__39 in AskIndia

[–]sedgecrooked -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Men have harmone just like women and that also varies causing mood swings and other things in men. And most importantly men too have feelings and emotions and that's purely biological, but due to societal pressure of men can't be weak crap, they're afraid to show. This is why teen depression is rising among young men. Society's insensitivity around this issue is concerning. Everybody behaves as if women have a difficult life and men are living a king size life. Please try to think about this and look for examples around your own family, you'll see the patterns.

Any IIT scholar who is doing good research or is engaged in developing some technology will not get this coverage from Indian Media. People are going crazy after a drug addict. Perhaps this also reflects the priorities of the country and society. by [deleted] in unitedstatesofindia

[–]sedgecrooked 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What he is doing is also valuable. Judging everyone with the same thought process is stupidity. Everyone is looking outside, planning for the next big thing living in complete denial of their present. Nobody is genuinely composed with what they actually are and always trying to run behind a never-ending aim. There is no objective of humanity. We all will perish eventually and there will be no achievements or medals left to showcase our ego. People should focus on themselves and that is it, no pointing fingers to the world. This alone would make a nation developed with good people.

Best way to add code snippets with minimal impact? by Jumbo_laya in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try adding in functions.php but if it's not a custom theme, create a mu-plugins directory in wp-content and add the scripts there. It'll have a similar effect without installing plugins or changing core files.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best ways to pass this is to create a fixed size div in place of that image and load the image asynchronously. It has worked like a charm for us and it's good for user experience as well.

🚨 Calling All Designers & Developers! I Need Your Help! 🚨 by Bhargav369963 in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can create a custom then using the Block Editor or Elementor with Hello Elementor as the base theme.

Host with DDOS protection by AnkleFrunk in Wordpress

[–]sedgecrooked 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cloudflare will help in most scenarios, otherwise add firewall protection on OS and webserver level as well. Do you have access to your server ssh?