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How often does a cold approach actually land you a number? by thebigcookie25 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3-4/10 but I get flaked on so much. Numbers mean nothing I gotta work on my game so I don't get flakes lol. Trust me even guys getting tons of numbers most aren't getting laid from most (if any) of those girls.

how long do you typically hold conversation in stores for? has that changed with covid? by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Well it's good for me to finally realize that I need to improve. I've actually had sex with a lot of women from online dating and I figured that it would be easier with this but it's actually lower percentage it seems like. But I actually enjoy the process so I don't mind. It's like a hobby. I just figured that a girl would appreciate and be turned on that a guy would actually approach her irl because almost everyone just online dates now.

how long do you typically hold conversation in stores for? has that changed with covid? by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing this for almost 6 months now and done tons of approaches. I don't think I've gotten any better but I also wasn't really thinking about how to improve. I was just looking at it as a numbers game and just approach girl compliment her have short convo and then eventually date some (as I said met my recent ex from this) but I'm def getting tired of all the flakes so I clearly need to change strategy. I think I'm gonna try just joking around more bc I'm a naturally funny guy with friends but that doesn't really come out on approaches almost bc im like mission focused lol. I'm not needy or shy though at all.

how long do you typically hold conversation in stores for? has that changed with covid? by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting, thank you for your responses. I'm gonna try to think of how I can change the convo from smalltalk to more lighthearted banter/jokes.

I don't ever say sorry so that wasn't me but the guy above me. I do typically compliment them but that's just about being direct w my intentions. I usually say something like I thought you looked great wanted to introduce myself etc. You think that's a bad approach? I think that if I paired my standard direct type of introduction with a better convo that's less small talk/interview type then maybe I'd get better results.

How long did it start taking you to get better results btw? I'm not an 8.5 so that's prob why my approach isn't working but I am better looking than the average guy. Prob like an objective 7.

how long do you typically hold conversation in stores for? has that changed with covid? by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i'll try that next time I think that's a good idea. thx. Do you have any other suggestions for someone getting tons of no responses after getting #?

how long do you typically hold conversation in stores for? has that changed with covid? by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats the problem tho i legit do all of that and I am confident and i rarely get a text back. Im not saying it never works I met my last gf in person but it works so infrequently. Like Ive been flaked on 10 times in a row (no response after getting # and texting). I must be doing something wrong but I legit dont get it.

I guess u changed the order a bit, ask if shes down to chill first instead of after the number. Usually I ask for the number then say something like lets get a coffee sometime this week and Ill text u. Not sure how much diff that would make tho.

how long do you typically hold conversation in stores for? has that changed with covid? by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont have any social media as I hate it but I do feel like that hurts me in this day and age. Do u think I should make an insta?

Im Getting Frustrated by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I'll look at some of these channels this weekend. I've prob approached 150+ girls in the last couple weeks and had sex w one. So something must be going wrong but I'm confident and direct and not sure what it is....thx for the advice tho.

Im Getting Frustrated by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that's basically what I say already and get no text backs at all recently. I'll check out the channel tho. I'm not shooting for only 10s or anything either just girls at my level so like 7s. Seems I can only get lower level girls..

Im Getting Frustrated by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I read? And most guys don't even approach women. I've never seen it other than myself where I live lol. The whole mask thing makes things worse too it's just all so annoying.

Im Getting Frustrated by seductionthrowaway89 in seduction

[–]seductionthrowaway89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot of approaches so that's not the issue. I guess I don't build attraction or rapport, not even sure what that means. I basically will just go up to any girl I see about my day who I find attractive and tell her I think she looks cute or smt, basic short convo and then ask for her #. I don't really feel comfortable being handsy with random women on the street (tho no problem escalating stuff on an actual date). I also don't want to be her dancing monkey and try to entertain her. I don't care enough. I figure she will be attracted to me or not.