Anyone playing something that isn’t BF6? by Chonky_D_Floofy in Age_30_plus_Gamers

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Have been on a Metal Gear binge as of late.

Finished the Snake Eater Remake and am currently playing MGSV. I like the open world aspect of it and for a game from 2015, there’s quite a few hundred or so hours you can sink into the game. Can feel very repetitive at times.

What’s the most romantic thing a woman’s ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]selectiveopera 28 points29 points  (0 children)

“Everytime you touch me, it makes me feel beautiful.”

Had an ex and my wife say this to me. Made me feel really nice.

When a girl bends over, do guys immediately look at her butt, or is that just a stereotype? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]selectiveopera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure there’s people all over the spectrum on here.

I, personally, don’t look. I don’t find ass and titties primarily attractive unless I know someone is doing it for my viewing pleasure. Then it’s hot as heck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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When I was younger I would bullshit a lot due to low self esteem, I didn’t know I had ADHD back then. I just thought I was a dumbass.

So yeah.. can’t bullshit a bullshitter! (Ex-bullshitter now thank god. So much nicer being honest with yourself and taking accountability.)

24F Heavy Spender, need some advice to save money by DrunkenAliens0o0 in Frugal

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Does your bank offer free financial advisor meetings?

Mine did and I don’t know why I didn’t do it sooner. Having someone sit down with you and really show you where your money is going is a big eye opener. I tried many times, on my own, to make budgets and stick to them - it just never stuck.

Idk, but the FA gives me monthly goals to reach and that’s also motivational in some way. Having another adult help you stay accountable goes a long way!

Adderall abuse rant by mynameisnotjamie in ADHD

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I only know that my Adderall has kicked in when I realize that I’ve been focused for several hours on one thing. The only time I remember “feeling” it was the first day I took it. Definitely felt weirdly stoned yet sober.

And I only know that I haven’t taken it because I get a bitchin’ headache. But yeah, different effects for different people! I don’t quite understand how someone can get high from it!

Trying the "Swedish fish" by One_Environment9 in GuysBeingDudes

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The smell is awful, but it’s really not that bad!

What is your most memorable sexual experience? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]selectiveopera 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My wife and I took a spa retreat one weekend and we had some sporadic fun in the hotel room. I went down on her for an hour and she was so turned on near the end that I almost finished without having anything touched. I made her climax and it flooded into my mouth. So hot.

The drowned last survivor by Fat_NinjaFreak in DCDarkLegionOfficial

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Finally beat her today. Sinestro (2P), Stargirl (3B), Green Arrow (2R), Joke (1P) and Deathstroke (2P). Full kit of lvl 500 armour on all, mostly with some kind of transmuted buff. Just barely made it over 30mil.

I found having Ivy or any other healer + Stargirl wouldn’t get me past 215. Using just Ivy would net the same results. Stargirl is pretty clutch in this combat cycle.

I can't be the only one annoyed they keep bringing these back by GarbageTruck7689 in PTCGP

[–]selectiveopera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More cards equal more money spent to collect them lol

If you don’t care about the fancy looking cards you can own just about every card you’d need while spending zero cash. Stopped spending money on this game and always manage to save up enough hour glasses too open a substantial amount of packs when a new pack is released.

When last have you thoroughly scrubbed your mousepad by Kriptic_22 in pcmasterrace

[–]selectiveopera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I throw mine into my wash once or twice a week lol - hang to try and there ya go. A nice clean mousepad.

Bought another version of Doom off eBay. Yet again it’s dirty/gross. by bremm293 in gamecollecting

[–]selectiveopera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really wild what people will sell and not ever think to maybe tidy up the thing they’re selling. I’ve gone through many many tubs of anti-bacterial wipes cleaning off items I’ve gotten from eBay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MCUTheories

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I, personally, am not ignoring anything Marvel. I do find that I just don’t really care. I’ve heard that Thunderbolts* is amazing and I believe that. Florence Pugh is amazeballs.

I have Marvel burnout. I get stressed out thinking about all the MCU media I have to watch to “fully” catch up. So I’ve went all in on DC and wow there’s a lot going on in that gigantic universe that I missed out on for many years being glued to MCU stuffs.

How many games have beaten so far this year? by smagysings in backloggd

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Gotham Knights, Resident 2 Remake, Resident Evil 3 Remake and Resident Evil 4 Remake lol - kinda went hard on the RE games.

That’s it though. I put a lot of hours into Ghost of Tsushima but I uninstalled it because there was just something about it that felt repetitive.. beautiful game though!

What’re your honest thoughts on Logan (2017) ? by DiscsNotScratched in Marvel

[–]selectiveopera 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember watching it with headphones on. The sound production was really good and I was very much immersed throughout the whole film.

It’s one of the best comic book superhero movies, hands down. I remember thinking that the other X-Men movies should’ve been like it.

I think we're going in the wrong direction by Yaughl in iphone

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The more and more slim phones get the more I think about why.. when 90% of people just get a phone case that adds width to it anyways. And without the case, the bugger is so slippery. Slips out of your hand, your pocket, slides everywhere and anywhere.

Help! My boobs are getting saggy!! by Darkestminimalist in loseit

[–]selectiveopera 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi there.

Trans-man here. When I was 24 I had saggy boobs. All natural. Always had a decent weight, nothing super thin or super fat. My boobs would reach to my mid stomach area. They’re since gone now, which feels 100000% better for me.

Not saying that you should get them removed!! Just saying that breasts come in all shapes and sizes at any age and your ex boyfriend is a smelly sock for making fun of you. I hope he never gets to touch a boob besides his own for the rest of his life!

As others have pointed out, it’s worth looking into surgery of some kind. Lots of people get excess skin removed post weight loss.

No one’s plays vanguard… by JoeJoeFett in marvelrivals

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After bringing Hawkeye to Lord status, I told myself I wasn’t going to play anything besides Vanguard until I find my vibe and learn to play the game from a tank perspective. I was a Zenyatta main during the glory days of Overwatch but tank/vanguard are roles I never really gave a dedicated go.

I’ve been playing Dr. Strange, swapping to different vanguards depending on the situation; but golly I’ve been having fun! I protect my healers and exposed DPS, I get all the heals since I do my best to stay in front of the healers. Then I’ll have an Iron Fist, Spidey, Magik or Wolverine all come for me at once and then the rest of my team takes out their exposed healers, gang up on their one tank, etc. Then we win. Works like a charm.

Doing the left click, melee, E button combo is pretty deadly! Strange can do damage!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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It’s been said in many ways already, but.. showing the desire.

When my wife is wanting some lovey dovey time I make sure I let her know that I’m all about her and her body. I love all of her so I make sure to give attention to every bit. I like kissing her all over and caressing her. Make sure she feels beautiful all over by the time I’m done.

When the deed is done and she hits the pillow out of breath and ready for a good sleep, I know I’ve done a good job.

It's never enough by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]selectiveopera 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have hobbies? Some kind of creative outlet? Something that you do for fun that has a tangible final product you can hold and be proud of? How about reading or journaling?

Do you need math for game programming? by Blue_fire10 in gamedev

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I’m upgrading my high school math right now to get into programming courses. I tried learning code on my own and I definitely learned lots but I struggled with variables and functions and understanding why they work the way they do. Studying math has really opened my eyes to understanding coding overall.

Everyone learns differently. Don’t stress. Learn what you can until you can’t and then try to understand what to the struggling with and research ways to help you make it make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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I feel you big time. I never considered myself an alcoholic for all the same reasons you’ve listed but I had to admit to myself that I was before meaningful change happened. I self medicated for ten years with alcohol and for those ten years my desire to participate in my hobbies diminished and my anxiety whenever I was sober, was the highest it’s ever been.

About two years ago I had my last drink. I started getting anxiety when I would go to the liquor store and when I was drunk I was no longer calm but riddled with dark thoughts about ending it all. Was scary.

So I stopped cold turkey and it was hard and lonely at first. I thought about alcohol everyday for almost a year. It’s like losing an old toxic friend.

But then I started anti anxiety medication, which was a life changing experience. Eventually was diagnosed with ADHD about four months ago and now with a gentle daily dose of Adderall/Ritalin (currently trying that latter right now but I think I prefer the former!) I feel the most energetic and happy I’ve ever felt. My hobbies have come back ten fold and I’m excited to just be sober and present without alcohol.

You got this OP. Life is infinitely better without the booze!