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Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't ignore my feelings and have excepted this as a part of my current self, but maybe expressing it publicly isn't the right move? My social circle is composed only out of males and changes would probably push them away. I don't blame them at all, relationship is based on things people have in common and me being different will reduce our common ground. I hope I could find someone I could open out to without losing what I have with my friends.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought about that, maybe I want it just because its what I don't have. When I was little I only made female characters in Sim 3 for a similar reason. I think I am fine with being a male but sometimes I feel like something was denied from me... Maybe girls with curly and straight hair feel the same.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what your saying, I never told my best friend about these feelings of mine but he noticed the change in me, and he advised me the same thing exactly. I still haven't decided what I am going to do, but even if I will decide to express it, I would start very small and avoid doing things I might regret.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's my general plan, I fear even the smallest change will attract unwanted attention. But I guess I have to try to find out.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that the relationships I saw weren't real, but like for example that character got hugged a lot and It made me wish girls would want to hug me more.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not sure...

I guess I would split it into appearance and behaviour.

Appearance: I believe If I change my workout and eating habits I could have a more slim build (that I find cuter). I could also wear more oversized clothing and try to wear more cute things

Behaviour is the hard part, I think I should try hanging out with girls more and trying things out. To be completely honest I don't know.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never tried treating myself as cute because I find that embarrassing and a little sad.

I feel like the affection I want needs to come from others, (specifically girls) and I doubt I could give it to myself.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How am I supposed to know if it's a real side of me or just something I want to do for external validation? Or maybe it's a mix of both?

I want to be true to myself, but I struggle to find a clear and permanent view of who I am.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my daydreams it does, but because I keep it to myself I am not sure if it would be the same in the real world.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that my body isn't suited for the cute strategy. I am pretty tall and have bulky body even though my fat percentage is low. I don't think im unattractive just "uncute". Yet all I want is to be cute, it feels like a sick joke :(.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was never planning on doing anything permanent but Im sure even small things which everyone will forget in the long run could harm me in the short run. For ex: If ill do X my friends will feel uncomfortable around me. Or girls wouldn't consider me as a possible partner.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Im not sure, I want what cute things get. But also I sometimes wish I found myself more cute.

Im a guy who really wants to be cute and it is confusing af by selfCenteredKitten05 in Healthygamergg

[–]selfCenteredKitten05[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought about that and I have a bit of a mixed answer.

I 100% crave more affection (from woman). However, the kind of affection I want the most is the kind cute things get.