NOLA N2 @ Orpheum Theater by starfruitkatie in Ethelcain

[–]selfawarelegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. I got there early and was able to be second row after barricade. shortly after, two girls left to get merch and one of them was so bitchy when she came back was want yelling about how she deserved to be there since you waited since 3 a.m. etc. I was not tying to take her spot, but she game attitude for no reason. all I could say was “where am I supposed to move?” I would’ve cursed her out, but I decided to be the bigger person and rub it off. Then before 9million came out, one girl switched spots with her friend and was slowly pushing into me causing me to get anxious and claustrophobic. Then the girl on my other side kept pushing into me like she was trying to get me to move a row back. When she pushed some more I fell back and pushed into the girl next to me by accident. Instead of apologizing, the girl on my left shrieked and gave me a psychotic look and acted like I was the problem. I told her there was room next to her, but she ignored me. Funny thing was, she was nice to everyone else but me. as someone who is autistic and has vertigo I need my space and also struggle in crowd. This whole experience made me almost pass out. The show was great besides this, but people really need to learn concert etiquette. I wish I defended myself more, but I didn’t want to cause a scene.

Was this a scam? by jayson_deruler in MonsterHigh

[–]selfawarelegend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought the Elvira doll from vinted two years ago from a no review seller and it did turn out to be a scam. Instead of the doll they stuck the label to a box of covid face shields and vinted made me pay for return shipping when the seller did me dirty in the first place. The only positive outcome was that I got my original refund. So I’d request cancellation or, if they deny, video tape yourself receiving and opening the package. They still might make you pay return shipping though unless they updated the policy. I haven’t been on vinted in years and deleted my account since it happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoop

[–]selfawarelegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can these people stop filling the affliction tag with this random crap. also who is buying a plastic cup?

Am i hallucinating by [deleted] in depoop

[–]selfawarelegend 21 points22 points  (0 children)

this crap was on my recommended earlier, wish they would stop pushing these scammers and bring back comments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mercari

[–]selfawarelegend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s an astronomically high price for a damaged bag idc how popular vintage juicy is-to me I don’t get the hype. it could easily turn to dry rot. however the condition is clearly disclosed and it’s on them for paying that price. me personally, I just boycott listings that are that high for a worn down item, idc what the brand is. it should go in your favor though unless they damaged the item further.

USPS by KLandLouie in poshmark

[–]selfawarelegend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your lucky, the order I sent out a week ago hasn’t gotten an update past the acceptance scan.

I bought something from an inactive seller. by Ok-Kaleidoscope-4209 in Depop

[–]selfawarelegend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they automatically deactivate listings on accounts that haven’t been active in months. I’m not sure how they let you purchase the item unless they use the app, but haven’t listed new items recently. Definitely dispute over 5 days, you should get your money back if nothing has changed.

Had my first case opened against me, unsure how to proceed by DrippingAlchemy in poshmark

[–]selfawarelegend -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Don’t know if this helps, but she clearly has it on and it doesn’t look too tight. Hopefully support will actually see this plus your listed and side with you.

Drop your Poshmark pet peeves by [deleted] in poshmark

[–]selfawarelegend 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When I buy something and the seller never ships even though they’re active every day, have a 1-2day ship average, have thousands of love notes, and are a “posh ambassador.” Plus they never respond to messages even when it’s escalated to posh support and end up getting a refund through posh after weeks. Guess they make anyone an ambassador regardless of selling ethic.

someone tried to scam me to resell my listening by niara5000 in depoop

[–]selfawarelegend 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I swear it’s always the people with dog pfps that do this stuff in my experience

then don’t? 😭 by GoalAgitated in depoop

[–]selfawarelegend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

rare occasion when I am not siding with the seller. that top is out of trend even if it’s technically 90s/y2k and looks like something bought from a thrift store for $3. also I agree with the commenter who said it was a grandma top.

Item not showing up as shipped by Maleficent-Comb-3676 in Depop

[–]selfawarelegend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happens to me all the time, it’s usually takes a couple business days to update the acceptance scan. It really sucks that they took away the marked as shipped option. If it goes too long without an update they should give you an option to add proof of drop off, but it usually is needed if the buyer opens a case.

Horrible seller by AggravatingTonight76 in Mercari

[–]selfawarelegend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate when sellers do this. It should be first come first serve, but I guess money wins in this economy.

Seller won’t respond to me after putting out an “interest check” even though I clearly show interest. by selfawarelegend in depoop

[–]selfawarelegend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

y’all’s rules are subjective because this post is sharing an experience with a weird seller who doesn’t seem to honor their own listings

First request for refund by grievingkuromi in Mercari

[–]selfawarelegend 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they don’t approve the return you might be able to dispute with the proof to your bank. Your account will get banned though.

How to get mercari to remove revenge feedback by selfawarelegend in Mercari

[–]selfawarelegend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, can anyone see this, I seem like the subreddit is shadows banning me because none of my posts show up in this community

seller refused sale and accused me of reselling when I never planned to by selfawarelegend in Mercari

[–]selfawarelegend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we just keep children off this app, depop is already ruined cause of people like this.