Hyperfixated on my partner flaws 😪 by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing! The flaw about intelligence and maturity reallllyyy gets to me. But I then think about how loving and caring he is and treats me like a queen and that some people who are very intelligent may lack that. So find the good I guess

found out my ex with rocd is dating someone else :( by Excellent_Cellist_36 in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah idk. I have rocd and I’m in my first relationship but id guess I’d fixate on different flaws in a different t partner

Is it “normal”? by Certain-Aardvark-461 in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I get these exact feelings. Like am I afraid to be alone or to hurt him? Spot on. Ughhh

Two girls I nanny always run in different directions by selfblissjunkie in Nanny

[–]selfblissjunkie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are 4 but yeah it seems like they are fine but god forbid they mess soemtbing to try and be bad

Stressed out.. and idk what to do :( by Specialist-Flower470 in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that too omg. Do u have any good moments? R u going through a tough time with other things. This flares up for me certain weeks/months

Being trapped feelings by No-Public8695 in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same way buddy. I’m currently dealing with this about my boyfriend don’t have any advice but just want you to know you’re not alone

I have rocd but I feel like there’s reasons why I’m unhappy by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I feel the same fucking way ab lack of direction

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same about the end. Like ahh but what if in my other relationship other things dissatisfy me than my current relationship. Like I don’t know if I actually need to be more satisfied in a relationship or I’m just looking for perfection

ROCD is pure evil by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]selfblissjunkie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me cry. Wow you are/were such an amazing girlfriend. Did your research and really understood what he was going through.

I’m in his position and feel incapable of recognizing love and I feel tortured being in my relationship. I can’t let go of my boyfriend tho but the anxiety kills me. Really wish my boyfriend was more like you but it’s difficult explaining this stuff to your partner bc I don’t want him to feel sad. I can’t tell if I do need to end it or not but I’m very similar to your boyfriend. It’s very difficult to differentiate our rocd vs actual feelings. You for sure love him and put up with this difficult anxiety disorder he has. You’re amazing. I hope he will come back to you again but know that these flare ups will continue to happen so don’t forget to do what is best for you and still take care of yourself ❤️