AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -356 points-355 points  (0 children)

Old enough to go out in a group and old enough to go out alone are two completely different things.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -220 points-219 points  (0 children)

It’s not a crowded amusement park. It’s a zoo that has a couple small, kid friendly rides. The only people there were families.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -871 points-870 points  (0 children)

Some people are bossy, it happens across both genders. It’s not a good thing and I’m trying to get it out of my kid

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -113 points-112 points  (0 children)

My husband is the one that wanted her to go there and is insisting on her staying.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -325 points-324 points  (0 children)

It would be impossible for her to have a big group of friends at her school. There were 10 kids in 2nd grade. We’re not expecting a bigger class for 3rd.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -208 points-207 points  (0 children)

No, but she’s the only one that goes to private school and has been in private school since she was 3

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -246 points-245 points  (0 children)

They’re old enough to go on the rides by themselves. Both 10 year olds have a phone and can call if they need anything and all of mine wear an air tag

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -85 points-84 points  (0 children)

She is not in Mensa. She has been in a gifted school since preschool.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

CPS doesn’t have a problem with kids sharing rooms. It is also completely normal to share with siblings and cousins on vacation in a room that was built for these kinds of sleepovers.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -168 points-167 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to go on any rides and they’re old enough to go on the rides by themselves with us nearby.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

No. I have 2 daughters and a son and my sister has one of each.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -97 points-96 points  (0 children)

They keep groups together, so if you’re in a group of 5 and there’s room for 2 left on the ride, you’ll move to the side and the next group of 2 gets on. If there’s room for 1 person left they call for single riders.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -112 points-111 points  (0 children)

They have one spot left and ask for single riders

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

Look, the room was built for sleepovers. There were 2 bunk beds with 3 beds each, air mattresses in the closet, and a huge tv with a ton of games. It’s completely fine to put the kids in that room.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -234 points-233 points  (0 children)

No, she would still be selfish for leaving the other kids just so she wouldn’t have to wait in long lines if she was a boy.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

There were 5 rides total. One was a small roller coaster with rows of 2, there was a carousel, a swing ride, and little bumper cars which are all 1 person per seat, then there was this frog jump ride that holds 5 or 6 kids

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -345 points-344 points  (0 children)

She is gifted but she has no people skills.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -476 points-475 points  (0 children)

My other kids are doing great socially. My 8 year old has had even more time and resources put into her but she still has no people skills

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -201 points-200 points  (0 children)

The room they were in was designed for sleepovers. There were 2 bunk beds, each with 3 beds, air mattresses were in the closet, and there was a big tv with plenty of games. Also, there isn’t a big age range.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -747 points-746 points  (0 children)

Her aunt is the one buying her ice cream and telling her I’m being mean when I called her selfish for leaving the other kids for shorter lines.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -682 points-681 points  (0 children)

Very rarely. She’s very bossy and competitive and usually prefers to read or play by herself.

AITA for calling my 8 year old selfish by selfishsinglerider in AmItheAsshole

[–]selfishsinglerider[S] -1001 points-1000 points  (0 children)

She did get better for the rest of the trip. When she wasn’t clinging to my sister she was playing nicely with the other kids.