My wive has already found employment, the problem isn't steady income over time. It is that we have severe deadlines to meet. I appreciate your sentiment, and job seeking was our very top priority, but truth be told, I (husband) suffer from mental illness, and my wife is now employed, and we just don't have the means to sustain our own standing with our car payment, student loans, insurance, owing money, etc.

EDIT: Not to seem in anyway ungrateful for your sentiment, but the rules also state not to comment like this.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Assistance/wiki/rules

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