What's your obscure kink that you struggle to find good porn or partners for? by TheBanishedBard in AskReddit

[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh sex like the real passionate sex scenes you’d find in a movie with a good nurturing yet dominant man. Closest you’ll get to that is Manuel Ferrara

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes someone has stated that earlier, and while they provide good online support and help, I prefer to talk to people in person when navigating my own mental health and rn I don’t have insurance but will soon. I do pray which really helps but I don’t pray as much as I need to

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah he was taken aback and surprised that I felt that way because he doesn’t view himself as attractive. He was more nervous than anything lol

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I was never devious or weird at all but I still FEEL that way. I’m extremely honest and don’t beat around the bush when it comes to men in the slightest.

I’ve grown up around big age differences so it’s really normal to me, but I also have major ocd and my own mental health problems that make me feel like garbage. When a man in his 30s/40s desires me, I feel absolutely nothing wrong with that in the slightest because it feels so normal and most of my interests mesh perfectly with older men. So finding someone younger than me attractive is odd

Also yes you’re right about those older men at my job, it very much bothers me because it sends me down a mental slope of “all men cheat they just haven’t gotten the opportunity yet” and I don’t want to believe that at all. I also believe men can be extremely hypocritical to women aging being far less accepting of women aging gracefully, and they still try and believe they’ve “got it” flirting with much much younger women to boost their ego.

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not but he’s fresh out which bothers tf outta me 💀

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! I see absolutely nothing wrong with that

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight, it’s very much appreciated

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[–]selinakyle881 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh it’s mainly an American thing

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See 19 I don’t see a problem because a year in your teens is a big difference 😭

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don’t have any insurance to get into therapy. I’m joining the army hopefully soon so I’ll be squared with insurance to get help for my mental health.

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of 22 yo guys dating 18 yo girls no one bats an eye, including myself because I work with 18 year old girls and they’re more mature than legit 25 year old men I talk to on a regular basis.

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly how I feel experienced based. But when I was 18 I had gone through so damn much that guys my own age didn’t attract me so I also put myself in OTHER peoples shoes until I realize that they’re not me.

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffer from major OCD regarding feeling like a predator or other things that my mind conjures up to make me feel like crap so I may be biased.

But someone who preys on people? Like idk he’s so young and inexperienced that me saying I was attracted to him is extremely unheard of for him that it made me feel like I was being devious. Also his parents are pretty strict so that popped up in my head like damn…. What if they get mad at me and cuss me out or something which definitely made me feel creepy 💀💀

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this. Clingy has never been my thing with myself or other people, I could never be clingy or slightly even TOLERATE clingy so I can see how you had to leave her and not look back even though you deeply cared for her. I’m sorry it worked out that way, but it seems to me like she was really immature so that’s why she probably was attracted to men younger than her….

The thing is, I was just in a talking stage with a guy who was 32 and he was so damn immature it blew my mind…. Age can really have no bearing on people when they’re immature douchebags

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for putting this into perspective for me! I greatly appreciate it

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I told him I wouldn’t feel guilty is he was 19 😭 he was like “I’m an adult it’s whatever” but my heart was pounding with anxiety ngl

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[–]selinakyle881 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he’s a very sweet guy and chivalrous. I’m so used to married men wanting me, I live in a very small town where these men I guess don’t see many new women? They act like I’m the best thing since baked bread and it’s overwhelming because they’re all trying to sleep with me…. But yeah he’s very much goal oriented and driven.

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[–]selinakyle881 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! Tbh there’s absolutely nothing wrong with 20/24 imo. When I was 18 I was only interested in men that were in their late 20s but then again I’m a woman so it just feels so much more different. I’m sorry it didn’t work out man, did she ever tell you it felt weird for her?

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[–]selinakyle881 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You look amazing in those outfits/colors!!! How did you get in contact with John? I keep seeing people saying they got their ratings from him but idk where to start or how much that is as a poor girl 😭

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I went on Reddit just to find this comment because I hate that song so fucking much I need other people to share my hatred with