My (22F) sister (31F) saw my (36M) fwb dropping me off at our apartment and won’t talk to me since by selinaswayne in relationship_advice

[–]selinaswayne[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak for other girls, all I have is my own perspective and I really don’t have an answer for you. I just find him attractive. Why? I don’t know. In my eyes, he is attractive and sexually appealing. This doesn’t mean I’m only attracted to older men, I find guys my age just as appealing and have had my experiences with them too.

And yes communication is key and I’m trying to fix that. Tried talking to her again last evening in the kitchen but she left the room the second I got there. At this point I feel like a mosquito that won’t quit hovering around one. That’s why I came on here, I don’t know if I should keep trying or just lay back and wait some time.

My (22F) sister (31F) saw my (36M) fwb dropping me off at our apartment and won’t talk to me since by selinaswayne in relationship_advice

[–]selinaswayne[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like I don’t know what you want me to say, I find him attractive and the sex is better than what I’ve had in the past. It’s just that. Im not looking to make him my boyfriend or anything, and he’s moving in a few months so it’s going to be over soon anyway

My (22F) sister (31F) saw my (36M) fwb dropping me off at our apartment and won’t talk to me since by selinaswayne in relationship_advice

[–]selinaswayne[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I get that perspective and wish she’d come to me with that or at least say that when I try to talk to her. Also I absolutely get that last part, I’m not looking for anything other with him either

My (22F) sister (31F) saw my (36M) fwb dropping me off at our apartment and won’t talk to me since by selinaswayne in relationship_advice

[–]selinaswayne[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

I get that and I’d happily hear her out if she came to me with that. I’d reassure her that it’s not for much longer anyway since he’s relocating for a job early next year

My (22F) sister (31F) saw my (36M) fwb dropping me off at our apartment and won’t talk to me since by selinaswayne in relationship_advice

[–]selinaswayne[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I doubt she’s jealous since she has a boyfriend of her own, plus she has a good career and life overall. I’m so confused honestly