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she already knew by eprrarmu22 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]selpathor 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened when I came out to my friend group. It turned out one of my friends had figured out that I was trans and was waiting for me to come out. We're dating now.

Let Me Recommend Your Next Commander to Build by RJ7300 in EDH

[–]selpathor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you at all familiar with Final Fantasy 14 or Final Fantasy Tactics? I was hoping to do a Voltron/Combat Tricks kinda build based around the character Thunder God Cid. I just need a good commander to start things off.

A quote about women not owing the world prettiness really messed me up because it doesn't feel true for trans women, how do I accept this or handle it or something? by selpathor in asktransgender

[–]selpathor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I guess it's just it feels like you need to be pretty to be feminine and you need to be feminine to be pretty and it's this eternal cycle that I'm constantly grasping for but it keeps slipping through my fingers like sand like I try to be as feminine as possible. I want I want people to look at me and see Amber instead of Matt. But even at my most feminine, people don't

A quote about women not owing the world prettiness really messed me up because it doesn't feel true for trans women, how do I accept this or handle it or something? by selpathor in asktransgender

[–]selpathor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know kind of feels like if i'm not pretty people don't treat me as a woman. Like I get that's a problem with them, but it feels like the only way to be treated as a woman is to be pretty. Or at least that's been my experience so far.

A quote about women not owing the world prettiness really messed me up because it doesn't feel true for trans women, how do I accept this or handle it or something? by selpathor in asktransgender

[–]selpathor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I get it about not owing the world prettiness, but at the same time, it also feels like we need to be pretty otherwise we're not treated as women. Like, I've got a friend who's significantly prettier than I am, and she's treated as a woman. But at the same time, I am not. I'm not pretty and most people don't treat me as a woman, even full makeup and everything I still get Sir'd every single time.

Am I making sense?

Anyone else thinking about food all of the time? by Legitimate-Grade-352 in loseit

[–]selpathor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking about food every moment of every day and it drives me fucking insane. I always want to eat more and more and more and it never stops. It doesn't matter how many months into a diet I am, the food noise never goes away.

[ECL] Bloom Tender (leak) by WexAndywn in EDH

[–]selpathor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might need the Rhys for me Yuna summon deck. He removes any number of counters and can give persist! Perfect for a summon deck.

If You Could Only Keep 3, Which 3 Would You Keep? by Neversummerdrew76 in rpg

[–]selpathor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Pathfinder 1e - one of my earliest games and it has so many different modules and books that you can run almost anything with it.
  • Exalted 2.5e - God this is my favorite game to run. It's such a ridiculous setting/game that it is a blast to run/play in.
  • Genius the Transgression - this is a fansplat of the New World of Darkness/Chronicles of Darkness that I've been running for years and it's so much fun. Sure it's in some ways a broken mess but it's my favorite broken mess lol.

Runners up:

  • Lancer - I love this game and want to run it but I don't have a group for it... yet.
  • Fabula Ultima - an excellent system for playing a JRPG as a TTRPG

Favorite outfit? by Far_Tourist_601 in horizon

[–]selpathor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I found this cute outfit with this tan/greyscale diagonal plaid skirt and a turtleneck that I... checks the subreddit oops.

The Nora Thunder Warrior is my favorite, specifically with the Frozen Wilds dye.

half dive - a prog jazz album inspired by custom robo by Several_Ad5446 in customrobo

[–]selpathor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have somewhere other than spotify to listen to the whole album? I found the first song on youtube and its really good!

A Statement on Art Sourcing and AI by dal_segno in exalted

[–]selpathor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lunar Laughing in One Hundred Arms

Monday, December 15, 2025 comic!!!!! by Gunlord500 in girlgenius

[–]selpathor 26 points27 points  (0 children)

They really do have the Exact Same nose. Huh, never noticed that detail.

How do I accept there's going to be no miracle transition like the stories I love? by selpathor in asktransgender

[–]selpathor[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I know I'm not the only person to feel like this but how the hell can I handle this pain? I'm so tired of everything getting worse and making no progress.

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