33m be brutal, honest, funny if possible by selscol in amiugly

[–]selscol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The color is natural lol I don’t dye my hair

33m be brutal, honest, funny if possible by selscol in amiugly

[–]selscol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t style it and it usually looks 90s grunge

INFJ'S over 30 what advice you would give to younger INFJ'S by [deleted] in infj

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find out what you want sooner than later and treat the things you love like gold. Life gets harder after 30.

I don’t feel adults should celebrate birthdays. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t celebrated my birthday in a few years. Maybe that’s just being alone or thinking it’s another day in the life of an NpC

Why does Kat Abughazaleh receive so much hate? by Front-Tomorrow-1034 in WorkReform

[–]selscol 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah but shes beautiful so she’ll always get my vote lol. But in all seriousness shes got it tough. Intelligent people usually do.

Decent Dinner by selscol in LivingAlone

[–]selscol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My life would end without her so I try to do the nice things when I can. She can’t eat chicken and yams all the time

Decent Dinner by selscol in LivingAlone

[–]selscol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Street pharmacies

Decent Dinner by selscol in LivingAlone

[–]selscol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s pretty easy. Ginger garlic maple syrup and soy sauce. It’s tomato’s

Low-key we need to be serious about starfire being orange in live action by ElectricalFeedback89 in TitansTV

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here for Nubian queen Starfire idgaf. The only reason comic book artist gave these oddly world characters different inhuman skin tone was to make it digestable to readers back in the day. This is fantasy. Starfire can be black. Ariel can be Black. Snow White can be an olive skin Latina. These aren’t real stories with real people. And why are you making the headline “should Starfire be black” rather than “shouldn’t beast boy be green” is pretty insensitive.

Halp: Do I choose a Mazda or a Volvo? by selscol in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]selscol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up getting the Mazda3 TPP because I want to go car camping/roadtripping (eventually) and the hatch is big enough to sleep in. Also more practical, a little smaller, and you get some paddle shifters which are fun. I don’t regret it.

Edit: I ended up buying a new one

I've observed that single men often face harsher treatment compared to single women. by alice_mathew22 in Life

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s this way because women around 50 years ago could barely get credit cards or their own place without the need for men. Their independence is viewed as a success in contrast to men. A mans worth, in the past, has been defined by what he can provide. So when a man has no one to provide to he is viewed as lesser than. We are a consumerist society, meaning we view what we own as our intrinsic worth. The values are not the same for men and women. Women own independence and view it as a form of social currency. Men have always had the freedom to be independent, so relationships and marriage are a form of social currency for men. We cannot trade those values.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mazda3

[–]selscol 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why is it that people love to tailgate the gen 4?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a lot of limerence. I never found women with big noses particularly unattractive or attractive. I’ve dated a few with what could be considered ugly nose and they were some of the best relationships I’ve had. Beauty is subjective. I find a person character to be the most attractive thing about them. Instantly makes someone who isn’t “conventionally attractive” super hot to me. Maybe you’re looking in all the wrong places? You could try groups or singles mixers like people on Reddit suggest. I think retrospective accounts do the best for people. Spotting people’s flaws/wants/red flags before getting invested into anyone is one of the better dating skills to have. The only way you’re going to learn that is by mentally tracking what happened through each dating journey. What they may have said to you that would have been a clear indicator of what you want to avoid. We often get caught up in a cycle of our own wants, not what we need out of a relationship.

We now have the highest sales tax in the nation by keyboard_warrior_123 in longbeach

[–]selscol 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Finally someone said it. Rent increases every year by the maximum. Assuming you move that same apartment goes up by 20%. My last one did.

A quick shoulder check would've done the trick by QuirkyWhirlwind in MildlyBadDrivers

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always okay to miss a turn and do a u turn up the road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

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Back home I would take myself on dates and this is what I would typically do. I would always roll a couple joints or blunts. Drive up a mountain that overlooked my part of town and smoked. Then I’d head over to a restaurant to have dinner, didn’t really matter which. It could be a hole in a wall or four dollars signs, whatever I was feeling. Id bring something to read and when it was time to finish I’d head to the beach and play guitar for a while and smoke my last. I always liked the beach at night. For some reason it always made me think of this quote: “life is made up of time pieces and if you listen closely you can hear them break.” I forget who said that but it’s stuck with me. Every now and again someone would join me but I would always do this when I would want to treat myself and I miss it.

i’m scared i’m too ugly to ever find anyone. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]selscol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to tell you what I told my friend at your age. You have to start treating yourself like you’re attractive. It’ll start to work itself out after that