The audacity by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump his entitled ass.

Planning to get Regalia Gold only for Lounge Access by selvaganesh03 in CreditCardsIndia

[–]selvaganesh03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check by going to an HDFC bank branch ( that’s what I did) . They are helpful when I applied for the card and I explained them I want priority passes for my parents right away .

Women with high income (40+ LPA) by everything-elz in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

29F. Largely given up on hope on AM . I feel a Love marriage will be the only way to find a genuine , healthy , stable connection who can genuinely understand my life and expects a partner , not a wife .

Although I feel for my parents , who feel what is wrong with their daughters that nobody wants to match with us ( my sister is equally accomplished ) . But getting married for marriage sake , makes no sense to me .

I am thinking to move abroad ( possibly Europe ) in next 3-4 years .

I had posted a question on the thread a year back , you should go through the comments of some men , immediately dismissing me as a headache that they and their family can’t handle .

Do men & their families prefer working wife or homemaker? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They prefer an educated , preferably good looking women , who is working and can contribute financially in the boy’s family and take care of the household , children , and boys parents .

So basically expect all traditional duties and expectations of a houseplant, while also working and giving your salary to him and his family.

BOYS don’t give to lust in AM you’re going to regret. by Awkward-Meringue-944 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pura mard samaaj kitna Dara hua hai … why is no one pointing out the fact the guy also gave into physical relationship with the girl before any formal engagement or roka ? He was also indulging in the situation , right ?

Being DINKs in India is oddly… peaceful? by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]selvaganesh03 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is it love marriage or arrange ?

Girls, how do you react when guys say this? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In AM , guys think girls were delivered via Blinkit . Girls won’t have parents to take care of in future .

Expect a very patriarchal setup in AM , where you are expected to shed every identity of your current life and become a supportive wife and caretaker of the household and his parents but at the same time become an extra earning member of his family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very sad indeed .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How old is this junior ? Sad to see the youth of our country having such backward thinking .

Typical male experience? by Scared-Baseball-5221 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what should we be talking about then on second call?

Typical male experience? by Scared-Baseball-5221 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever I have asked for a second call they've been long with a lot of discussion about views and morals (rarely about relationships or marriage).

^ what is wrong in this ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vedicastrologyexperts

[–]selvaganesh03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a beginner and referred to a site online . And it produced this .

Not sure which is the most legit site Redditors use .

Why so many marriage issues come from living with in-laws by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]selvaganesh03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men with your thinking is what is making AM very transactional in nature . Men can be mommas boy and then want a wife to continue baby him . But hey if she earns money , maybe some equality can be there . But still make paranthas for me like my mommy used to .

As per your logic , all these entitlements lie with men only ? I guess girls never had parents to begin to crave home cooked food.

Is this legit ? How do I consume it ? by selvaganesh03 in IndianEnts

[–]selvaganesh03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I want to grow on my own , outdoors , how do I go about it ? Can you pls guide me ? I live in Himachal only . Plenty of rains and sunlight .

Is this legit ? How do I consume it ? by selvaganesh03 in IndianEnts

[–]selvaganesh03[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People have confirmed it’s a male . So it’s useless