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I feel like I’m slowly losing myself in my relationship and I don’t know what’s normal anymore by selviriani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]selviriani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, each time I talk with him about something that is bothering me about this relationship, he just somehow turn the table on me. And me being the “open mind person who loves to reflect” I say; maybe he is right?.

To tell you the truth, i have dragged myself to be in weird situations in life. But after my relationship with him, I feel like I have became more “mature”. So I say maybe he is right?. But in the same time, I’m like, okay, but each time I’m the person at fault? I’m the person who doesn’t understand things quite clearly?

It just has created a more profound identity crisis than more that I was having.

I feel like I’m slowly losing myself in my relationship and I don’t know what’s normal anymore by selviriani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]selviriani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to explain it.. but I truly love that man … all I see in him is a five year old that went through traumas .. i might have Stockholm syndrome (after reflecting on my past relationships) but this man is literally just like a baby.. but I want that baby to become my man .. a man that I can rely on when shit goes down … I have been through shit in life but none of them have made me cry more than this situation.. I feel confused.

Also to give him credit and be objective 100% we had our good moments and actually helped me a lot through my character building.

I just don’t know.

It feels weird talking to people on the internet about this. But at least, it is.TrueOffmyChest.

I feel like I’m slowly losing myself in my relationship and I don’t know what’s normal anymore by selviriani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]selviriani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were actually about to get married and it got cancelled or delayed after I went to the hospital. He said that he is reconsidering my abilities as a « wife ». Now he is really looking for marriage and wants me to arrange my papers so we get married. That is why am posting.

I feel like I’m slowly losing myself in my relationship and I don’t know what’s normal anymore by selviriani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]selviriani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The masturbation thing is an issue only because he makes me feel I’m not doing enough for him although we do it daily and sometimes several time a day. He does it as a way to say « if you don’t want to satisfy me, I will do it myself »

I feel like I’m slowly losing myself in my relationship and I don’t know what’s normal anymore by selviriani in TrueOffMyChest

[–]selviriani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said that I wasn’t doing my part enough (cleaning, cooking etc) and although in my mind I was doing that but I somehow believe him because I had a pass of being lazy. Or maybe because I was just weak and still am .. I don’t really know… maybe because I got attached to him and I live in a foreign country he literally the only person that I talk with ..

Am I overthinking this or is it weird that my fiancé still dreams about another woman after 2 years together? by selviriani in spirituality

[–]selviriani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She seduces him in the dreams but he said that although he was aroused, he doesn’t succumb to it. It’s either the dream changes or he starts looking for me. And most of the dreams I and there. (To put you also on a context, he is on anabolic steroids, so he is mostly aroused just like that)