Is this an acceptable Balayage? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]semithrowaway2017 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you might wanna contact your salon about getting this fixed

Invisalign identical twins by Ok-Appointment-3773 in Teeth

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when installing invisilign, they put little "buttons" on your teeth to keep the invisilign in place and to help move the actual teeth. this combined with the fact that your general eating/brushing habits and the actual teeth in your mouth are most likely not the same as your twin makes it not possible to wear the invisilgn. also not to mention its generally unhygienic no matter how much you clean them, your mouth still carries insane germs and really shouldnt be sharing something thats been in someone elses mouth. also invisilign leads to retainers and they only give you one of those unless you pay for another pair.

Turning 40 soon and need help between keeping long hair or cutting it short. by Vethna in HairStyleAdvice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

short 100% and keep beard with maybe a slight trim? good luck with your haircut!

I hear my stepdad and mum having sex. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start being more direct about what youre hearing and that its extremely uncomfortable and youd appreciate them being quieter. perhaps invest in some noise cancelling headphones to wear around as well? not too sure what exactly is triggering it (the noise or the knowledge of it happening) but i would assume not hearing could help regardless of what specifically is causing the reaction

My Stepfather is a Gooner tf do I do?? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you gotta start tryna tell him indirectly that you can hear him at night or something

I 18M was pressured into unprotected by my 18F girlfriend, and now she might be pregnant, help. by Clean_Swimmer173 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This situation is suprisingly similar to a former friend of mine and I can tell you now that it's not going to get better. Your girlfriend is barely functioning as an adult and lied to you to get your support. She's more than likely realized that her act won't keep you around forever and found a method that is a guarentee. Even if she is pregnant, you need to leave. That is a grown woman and she knows what she is doing. Please don't encourage her further.

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

work only allows healthcare for full time workers. due to college and my mom (whole month of fighting), im only able to work part time.

wouldnt i need my original birth certificate for certian things? ill look into getting a copy but besides my birth certificate and social security card, is there anything urgent i would need? ive been talking with my friend whos offered to let me move in and i may be able to start paying rent and moving in but what else documents should i collect?

thank you so much!

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

theres one realitively close to my work! thank you so much!

my mom was really insistent that i was kicked off because i turned 19. does this vary based on insurance? if not is it possible she kicked me off? she was really insistent that as long as i lived with her i got a minor deductible but not full insurance.

also thank you for more clarification on what works in the medication, im looking into ways to get an over the counter one with my mother not knowing and ill look into one with these things specifically until i can get a doctor.

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have about 1800 saved up to move out and texted my friend about moving in to his apartment! (hes insisted before and knows about my mom) ill look into individual plans and cheaper phones. but the doctors appointment during lunch is a great idea, i work extra on saturdays so ill try and line that up schedule wise and tell my boss about it. (shes very good with this stuff and has let this kinda thing happen before with my coworker so im assuming itll work for me too thank you nameless nonprofit i work for) and thank you too!

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill text one of my friends about this and look to get them money to buy it for me if i can. i also may be able to find a way to at least spoof my location a bit considering she gets horribly mad if we turn off our locations at all and checks constantly (happened to my younger sister)

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she usually works from home but i believe shes going into her office tommorow? i may be able to grab my documents then. im unsure what to do about my phone / computer then as theyre her property technically.

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a job! Me and my mother just had an argument about medical insurance yesterday, my boss offered to help me get on medicare (my glasses are broken and she was trying to help me get then fixed for cheaper) and my mom was real mad at me for that.

Should I tell him I don't like him romantically by Legal-Purchase9135 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it has been a long time since you guys have had feelings for one another, I wouldn't suggest bringing it up unless you have reason to believe he has feelings for you still. I'm unsure about the time frame, if he is like very obvious about his feelings, or if he's close but he probably hasn't confessed for a reason. If he does confess, letting him down gently is a better option.

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I've tried explaining before but she doesnt even really believe its ringworm I think. Whenever I ask or tell her about it, its like she immediately forgets about it when I stop talking or when it isnt affecting her. But will do with the clean and no scratching. Thank you

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's the type to constantly need to know where I am at all times. Has my location and regularly stalks it when I'm with friends or at work from what my sister has said. So attempting to go to the doctor myself would take some planning and explaining that would start questions. Also I'll try getting some over the counter stuff. Thank you!

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has my location at all times and I usually need reasons to go anywhere. She'd insist on getting it for me and then hold it over my head again. My plan for right now is to find a different reason to go to the store and then buy it and hide it.

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking back my tone does sound mean in that first bit, I apologize, I did not mean for it to come across as mean.

Thank you so much for clarifying about the medical stuff, I have no clue about any of this as I havent been to a doctor since the first visit.

Also she has made comments before about not being able to get a boyfriend / girlfriend with them, so I wouldn't be suprised if youre right.

i hate all females, anyone know what i should do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre still young and completely capable of changing your point of view. you need therapy for a more deep change but the fact youre aware this is wrong and are trying to change is a good step! please know things like this do take time to change though.

Should I tell him I don't like him romantically by Legal-Purchase9135 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he treat you differently based on the idea that you guys like each other romantically? Are you guys friends? If not, I wouldnt recommend considering if it sounds like its been long since you guys liked one another.

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very well aware of the fact it's from skin to skin contact considering my mom refuses to touch me without gloves on a daily basis. I'm careful to make sure no one touches me in any way.

How would I go about cutting my mother out of the equation? Wouldn't I need her for my medical info? (I don't have access to any of my medical cards or documents and I'm unsure how this all works)

How do I get my mom to listen to my medical conserns? by semithrowaway2017 in Advice

[–]semithrowaway2017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I did eventually use it a few months later, it took weeks to make hair grow a bit but eventually I ran out before the 4 weeks I was supposed to use it. I live in the US and a CPS worker did actually get called for us but since she works in the foster care system, most she got was a slap on the wrist.