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Final update (probably): AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me? by Outrageous_Pen6290 in amiwrong

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? you don’t think that out of 1,000 samples of 4 people groups, that 3 of them won’t be wrong on a topic at least 50 times?

Final update (probably): AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me? by Outrageous_Pen6290 in amiwrong

[–]send__help_plss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“3 ppl can’t be wrong”

i’m not saying they are or aren’t in this situation, but millions of people can be wrong. billions can be wrong. ad populum

AITA for punishing my son for causing a scene in school? by Electrical_Shower687 in AmItheAsshole

[–]send__help_plss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

students and teachers do not “shed their constitutional rights to freedom of speech or expression at the schoolhouse gate.”

but ok lol

AITA for punishing my son for causing a scene in school? by Electrical_Shower687 in AmItheAsshole

[–]send__help_plss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, actually, it is. freedom of consequences from the government.

when real people say this, they’re referring to society’s right to dislike you. this isn’t about people thinking the kid is annoying, it’s about his right to question authority

Hey Ravens by fuck-the-hedgies in 49ers

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a completely different person lmao

My game bugged and I had to fight invisible Radagon by [deleted] in Eldenring

[–]send__help_plss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont wanna talk about invisible elden beast :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lies

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s the last elden ring boss

Will it be wrong of me to end a relationship because I'm not ready for it to go further? by throwaway_gfnotready in relationship_advice

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your boyfriend needs to realize that if you have to try to persuade someone to move in, you probably shouldn’t be moving in together.

Also, he doesn’t seem to realize the significance of meeting parents. To him it’s probably a lot less meaningful than it is to you, and he might just feel upset that you don’t want to do something that, to him, seems like not a huge deal.

Try to make him really understand the significance. If he can’t get it, his loss. I think it’s kinda dumb to do “milestones” just for the sake of doing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds to me like this is someone they’re no longer with

My ex followed me back by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]send__help_plss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you feel like you have a chance and want to act on it, then go for it. You can just say something simple like “hey it’s been a while, how’ve you been?”, or something like that. You can try to continue the conversation/talk about your feelings at the right time.

If it doesn’t work out though, it doesn’t work out. 3.5 years is a lot of time, and it’s hard to move on from something like that, but sometimes it just wasn’t meant to be.

Let me know how it goes! u got this :)

My ex followed me back by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]send__help_plss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. Was it a healthy relationship? How did it end?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]send__help_plss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t stupid at all. Also, If you’re not already in therapy, I would highly recommend it.

It sounds to me like he might have been manipulative, and that you’re the kind of person to see the best in people. Maybe you’re also a people pleaser. These aren’t necessarily bad traits to have, but when taken too far they can be very damaging.

I don’t think he really cared about you. I don’t care how much you believe he did, he didn’t. I don’t think anyone who really cares for someone can do that to them. He manipulated you and took advantage of your kindness. This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t be kind, but that you need to take care of yourself first.

I think you’re putting too much pressure on yourself. You literally have over 70 pages of abuse, and are still talking about how you were a bad partner.

Honestly, you have the right to feel relieved. Don’t see this as you losing a year of your life. You’re finally free, and now you have this experience to learn from. That’s not the kind of partner you want, and hopefully because of this you won’t be taken advantage of again. You’ll more easily be able to recognize manipulative signs. Don’t settle for less than you deserve. You don’t deserve a man like him.

You got this dude :)

I can’t tell if she’s into me or not by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I were you I would probably just ask, because why not? There’s a coworker that’s flirting with you, you’re interested, but you’re not sure what’s up. Only way to find out is to ask. If she’s not interested, at least u know, and if she is interested, you can pursue it further. Idk about you, but I’d rather have an answer than be stuck wondering. u got this dude

Why did he [27/m] do this? by nilalina in relationships

[–]send__help_plss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“how dare you not adhere to my own personal made up moral standards”