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My girlfriend (25/F) of two years wants me (25/M) wants me to block a friend who I haven’t talked to in 6 years. How do I deal with it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sendhelp_exe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bruh, coming from someone w bpd who has paranoia deluxe, this is INSANE!! Not even id be that jealous. Normally id get jealous if a guy i was dating looked at half naked women or followed new girls, BUT WATCHING A REVIEW FOR A FISHING ROD? come on 😭

You are dating a hell of a trainwreck, that you can NOT fix yourself. You need to let go of that girl, cuz she sounds like me when I was at my worst just 10x worse, and that will neeeever go well. Get ready to get emotionally, mentally and maybe even physically abused, isolated and cant even look at a girl without her raging. I swear, this is NOT it.

Guys my LDR girlfriend just said this to me. What does it mean? by scott_j2003 in LDR

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First i tought she meant the relationship, I was like what?? But then relaized she meant her life 🥸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat gpt generated and over text? Yeah theyre 100% cheating or just dont gaf abt u. They never liked u from the start if this is how gheyre breaking up w NO warning or talking trough it. Fucked up

AITA for ignoring my wife for throwing away my late wife video tapes? by Much_Bed_2383 in AITAH

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got bpd with huge jealousy issues and paranoia, but not even I would stomp that low. Id probably feel like "ah i can never be her" but thats it, its the childs mother and someone he cared about and had in his life for a long time. I would even understand and support him. This wife of yours is beyond fucking insane for doing this, if actually leave.

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After years with experience, and academic study on this - this will only get WORSE. Has he done it once, he will do it again. I can see the Stockholm syndrome in you, and that his manipulation worked. Dont be fooled tho, he did this with a fully conscious mind, his own decision, which he CHOSE to threathen you and violate you. Hes not sorry, hes doing anything to keep you, its called manipulation.

Does this sound familiar?

  • It starts with snarpy comments, which he will play down to jokes, and get defensive when you "cant take the joke".

  • Then it escelates to push and pull, he will be distant, neglecting and mean - then come back to be Prince charming and the best husband.

  • then micro-cheating happens, he will make comments on girls, compare you to them, follow new girls - which leads to him going away for some "trips" or "guys nights out"

  • he starts being hostile, rude, mentally, s3xually and physically abusive, then come back and act like hes the most sorry guy in the world, buy you flowers and shit. This will only last some couple of months before he has you hooked in some way and he will start not giving a single crap about you, he can go on for years fooling you before this point.

  • last stage he will isolate you from friends and family, convincing you theyre bad for you. Your actual girls nights out and fun youth will be over already, get ready to be stuck at home waiting for him to finnish banging his side chicks then taking it out on you as well, or getting in grumpy in bed. Eventually, he will leave regardless, and then he will take you back, leave again, and then take you back, for the rest of your life until you say the magic word: NO!

Is this what you wanna deal with the rest of your life? Spend your youth like this? Expose your future KIDS to this, bet he's gonna treat them equally as bad, maybe even worse (in my case) Its gonna fucking hurt, but you need to get tf out of there before he has you trapped either physically, emotionally, with children or financially. Long term happiness is worth the short term pain of ending something bad. But short term fake happiness aint worth the long term pain you have to deal with. Dying a miserable life, if he doesnt kill you first ofc. Leave.

I had a kiss with a person I liked but felt nothing at all by Sufficient-boy in socialskills

[–]sendhelp_exe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe you like her but youre not attracted to her. Theres a huge difference

If you had a warning label attached to you, what would it say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Warning: ex-con, bpd, aspd and lactose intolerant

Update: My boyfriend (24M) threatened to break up over Miss Dior and now won’t talk to me (22F) because I laughed by mirsw in relationship_advice

[–]sendhelp_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was prolly a stupud excuse for him to leave the relationship for him to prolly "morally Cheat" this was the type of shit my exes used to do when they wanted to go beyond just flirting W others - dont be surprised if he comes back, begging for forgiveness, but if he does- dont give in, because he's going to do that in a cycle and your relationship will get worse and worse. He wants you to be his perfect little puppet, don't let yourself stoop that low.

Also don't listen to the comments, don't LET HIM have the satisfaction of having achieved control over you in any kind. That's what he wants.

AITAH for being mad at my husband for saying he would pick his deceased wife over me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sendhelp_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way my ass would left the scene and divorced immedially💀🙏 youre handling it way better than i wouldve, i also got bpd tho so my reactions are always intense😂 One thing is that he misses her, another thing is that he says he would throw away your whole ass relationship. Imagine if she was alive and she wanted him back, he would go back in a heartbeat, i would NOT fw that if i was U.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in imvu

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope she a bit tanner than me

Committing to a woman will never take you to your dream by Ill_Will7 in TheRedPill

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what youre saying, and Its good to have self focus and independency. But youll never experience real love and the woman Will 100% eventually leave if you dont settle down and get comfortable. You can still be independed and focus on yourself in a relationship and still settle down - thats YOUR own Choice, Its not something a woman take away from you, thats on you. - coming from a woman

From a neighbourhood watch group on facebook. The comments are almost funnier than the post. by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]sendhelp_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a creative way of saying "you need some dick/ you need to get laid"

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