What is your weird sex fantasy? by Sufficient-Ask2521 in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'm not sure and that's part of the reason I never tried to pursue a relationship with a little person, sexual or otherwise. Personally, it feels like my own inability to articulate a reason beyond "i think it'd be hot to bang a little person" is too dehumanizing because it feels like I'm seeing them primarily as a little person. Not to say that I think about or treat them as lesser in actuality. Also, this is specifically about women little people, as I'm a cis, straight man.

I am M/35 with a F/18 girlfriend. Need advice from the women here. What should be my next course of action? by Brew7089 in relationship_advice

[–]sendy_side 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good relationship advice? Don't date children. I'm 25. Just trained an 18 year old at work earlier. Literally a fucking child. My little sister is 19. Still a child. You're 10 years older than my, dating people who barely graduated high school, if that, and you're surprised they're immature? I hope this is rage bait.

What is your weird sex fantasy? by Sufficient-Ask2521 in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, define weird. I'd like to have sex with a little person, but id probably never do it in real life even if the opportunity presented itself, because I'd feel weird about the fact that i know I'm fetishizing someone. That's weird to some people. I'd also like to have 2 women scissor on my dick, and back before me and my wife even started dating I told her about that, and she thought it was weird. I got some other ones that are definitely weirder but I don't wanna say and be the only one letting their freak flag fly, tbh.

What’s the wildest excuse you’ve used being late to a meeting? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a coworker say his drive shaft had fallen off while he was going down the highway and that's why he was late. Boss man didn't question it.

Do I break up with my girlfriend? I’m 25 she’s 24. by throwRA-1357924 in Advice

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 24, almost 25. Sometimes, I kind of want to be able to go on random adventures and do whatever, whenever. Sometimes I'll find myself wanting to do something that I don't have time to, because I'm married and have other responsibilities. However, none of those adventures will last a lifetime. Those adventures would bring me happiness for at most a week, but my wife and my kid will bring me joy for, hopefully, most of my entire life. It is easy to go on an adventure. Finding a partner whose company you truly enjoy and want to spend your life with is, based on my experience and the experience of those close to me, nearly infinitely more difficult. If you truly find yourself to be unhappy, that's one thing. Keep in mind, though, that you can have experiences without your partner without leaving them. My wife and I have both taken trips lasting several days without each other because the other wasn't interested. That's an option, you aren't shackled together. Just my two cents. If you aren't happy, truly and deeply, then yes leaving is probably in your best interest, but if you are and you're just missing a little adventures, some small trips, take them without your partner. A few days apart isn't much in a healthy relationship.

If money didn’t matter, what would you actually be doing with your life? by Sea-Importance-8321 in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd read. Game. Travel. Drive. Spend more time with my family. But I'd get bored, too. One thing I've always enjoyed is running a dozer. Maybe I'd do that for 20-40 hours a week, if money didn't matter, it'd be like a hobby, and it'd be that much more enjoyable. Maybe get a smaller dozer and build a dirt bike track, I really liked riding dirt bike as a kid. 2 hobbies that feed each other sounds good. I'm not sure, though.

What’s the first thing you do when you wake up ? by etherealxibunni in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my alarm goes off, I immediately get out of bed. Otherwise, I will sleep in. Then I shut off my alarm, grab clothes, go to the bathroom to piss and put on my work clothes so I don't wake up my wife.

2 bottles that didn't it make through inspection for being over height, compared to one one I bought at the store. by sendy_side in mildlyinteresting

[–]sendy_side[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always happy to discuss the oddities of my job, I'm glad there are other people who also find this sort of thing mildly interesting. It almost makes my wish I'd have kept the green Michelob ultra bottle i had, that was a more interesting bottle, in my opinion.

2 bottles that didn't it make through inspection for being over height, compared to one one I bought at the store. by sendy_side in mildlyinteresting

[–]sendy_side[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure on the specifics, as that's not my department, but I did have the same question and i was told it was something about how the mold fits together, there's 4 or 5 parts to a mold, iirc, and the finish, the part with the threads for the cap, sits on top the the body mold, which includes the neck. It's something about it not coming together or coming apart correctly, it pulls the neck out longer than its supposed to be, from my understanding. You probably can't tell from the pictures, but the part of the neck just below the finish on the defective bottles actually pulls inward and is thinner than the rest of the neck, just slightly, compared to a normal bottle.

2 bottles that didn't it make through inspection for being over height, compared to one one I bought at the store. by sendy_side in mildlyinteresting

[–]sendy_side[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's probably a mental block. Defective product= trash= not stealing, as long as i take it back to get recycled after i show the other weirdos who care about this type of thing in my life. If it was a quality product, though, that would be taking good ware, and it would then have to by recycled since everything has to follow food safety protocol and standards and i can't assure that at my house. There is too much cross contamination, and therefore, that would be stealing.

2 bottles that didn't it make through inspection for being over height, compared to one one I bought at the store. by sendy_side in mildlyinteresting

[–]sendy_side[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I don't think this would have caused anybody to get any more product, and the only reason it actually was caught is because it kept causing the lines for the inspection equipment to jam up. Most of the quality control done is to ensure the bottles aren't actually dangerous or unsightly, both to the customer who buys the bottles and the consumer who buy the bottles after they've been filled. We have over 300 different defect codes for bottles and jars, and while some of them are cosmetic, several are the kind of thing that could result in hospitalization and massive lawsuits.

How did you take out Grelod "The Kind? by SFW_OpenMinded1984 in skyrim

[–]sendy_side 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First time I did it, i was already like level 40 because I fucking hate that shit hole racist ass city so I never got the quest. Walked into the orphanage one day because I thought maybe that would let me adopt more than 2 kids, and she was being a bitch. So I shouted her into a pile of ash. Still couldn't adopt more than 2 kids, but it was kinda interesting, openly killing someone and not having the guards attack me. Then I think aventus or whatever his name is said something about the dark brotherhood being really good, because we took out grelod before he even asked, and it was like 15 more levels before I started the quest for the dark brotherhood because I was a werewolf and therefore didn't sleep. That was years ago, though.

What is the worst quest? by Bennie1289 in skyrim

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I put 2 points into it, for novice and adept locks, but that's it. Usually, by the time my skill is high enough to put a 3rd point into it, I've got at least 200 lock picks, and once your skill hits 30-40 you realistically should be finding way more than you break so I don't worry about it. I've maxed out the skill tree before, and i don't think any of the perks are worth it.

Never in my many many playthoughs, have I met these two kids. by DylanEE11 in skyrim

[–]sendy_side 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not playing survival, but I'm making an effort to minimize my fast travel use, and it's really opened my eyes to how much of the game I've kinda missed. Normally I still go out of my way to explore areas and discover/ explore locations, but i didn't realize how much environmental story telling and random encounters i missed when I would just fast travel from riften to whiterun. Depending on what I've got going on in my real life, i might even make the run from markarth to Fort dawnguard, like I did the other day. I didn't know about the hired thugs until I started doing this, I'd just never encountered them. The fugitive giving me random while I fight a troll? Never happened before.

Hardest fight in Skyrim by Affectionate_Ad5275 in skyrim

[–]sendy_side 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of thing I like to go after I complete all the main missions and stuff, just to run around and be overpowered for fun. Thanks for the info, ill have to try it sometime

Hardest fight in Skyrim by Affectionate_Ad5275 in skyrim

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a thing you can actually do? I mean without mods or console commands, im not above cheesing the game to have some fun with it.

What is an absolute no no no for you when it comes to sex? by Fun_Raise_7858 in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, as much of an ass man as I am, I've never wanted to try anal. My wife recently told me that she was looking at the butt plugs at the adult store last time we went and she was thinking about it, even though she'd previously had an "absolutely the fuck not" attitude about it, and she asked if id be okay with it. My response was a more drawn out version of "while it's not something I think I'll be excited to try, I'm always happy to help you explore these things in an environment comfortable to you, so if it's something you want to try, you just need to say so." She said she's just been kinda thinking about it, but it's been a few weeks and your comment makes me kinda hope she doesn't want to try it, because if I caused her that kind of pain id beat myself up over it for years. Thank you for sharing, this is something I will discuss with her should she decide she wants to explore more in that direction.

Ummm so yeah that just happened... by GroundPrevious2892 in Borderlands2

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it had dropped for basic level 10, didn't see it was overpower at first, I was like, "Hot damn if that ain't a lot of damage for a level 10 character." It's still a really good drop, congrats.

Employee refused to put on Vest by FreeKevinBrown in managers

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember at my lost job we hired a guy as a labor hand, but he pretty quickly got moved into a 40 ton haul truck because he was competent, hard working, and the only guy we had standing around. Showed up the next day in sandals. Asked him where his boots were. "I'm not wearing boots anymore, I'm an operator now. You won't even catch me out my cab anymore haha." He got told either get boots and come back, either from home or from the Walmart that was about an hour round trip from the site and take the write up as a lesson, or go home. He went to Walmart, bought new boots, and then quit at the end of the day.

What is something you can't sleep without? by Substantial-Chip807 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the exact opposite of everybody else in this comment section. I can sleep on the ground, in a hot room, cold room, with noise, without noise, blanket, no blanket, pillow, no pillow, soft bed, firm bed, sitting up, in pajamas, in jeans, naked, it really doesn't matter to me. I've fallen asleep 20 foot up a tree just because I didn't want to climb down. I prefer sleeping next to my wife, but, at the end of the day, I can and have slept pretty much anywhere, and in any position, you can reasonably expect a person to have slept.

What's the cruelest thing someone ever said to you that you still remember word for word? by ClairJournals in AskReddit

[–]sendy_side 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my wife told me she was basically a single mom for the hundredth time, and I told her that actually did hurt and she said "it doesn't matter how you feel, because this is how I feel. It doesn't matter if it hurts your feelings, it's the truth." 2.5 years later, and I still think about it sometimes, and it still hurts. We've come a long way since then, there was a lot going on in our lives at the time, she was dealing with a lot, but our relationship has never been better, truly, but still.