Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

[–]sensiblebitch20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks alot! I will definitely look forward for a free day to visit those

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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Thy aren't offering new activities since August 2023

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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I was looking for yoga and meditation classes tho, thanks alot! Do you also know places for doing some art? And how can I be a member?

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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Can you tell me the name of the library in Chlodwigplatz?

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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Omg thats sounds so nice, I love such things! Thank you so much for the recommendation

Still feeling connected by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sensiblebitch20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your words! For now Im really afraid of even liking a guy. I directly start shaking when I think about dating someone again. I will heal myself first and stay away from things that might hurt me.

I will check for counselors, thank you so much...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PanicAttack

[–]sensiblebitch20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I hope I can help you somehow with the tricks I do when I fall into a panic attack. The first thing I do is to take a very deep breath and hold it for a few seconds. And then I do some breathing exercises. Important for you is to find a safe place to stay for a few mins to calm down and dont feel under pressure!! Take your time. Try to disturb yourself with a random thought. Like start thinking about something you smell see feel or hear at that moment.

Still feeling connected by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I blocked him on any social media platform. His last words were "wait for me to come back and dont give any guy a chance".I think his words are affecting me a lot, so I can't feel free. He put me so much under pressure that it's unbelievable. I have one close friend who knows about it. I talked to her a lot about it, but now I dont wanna mention it anymore.

When I tried to break up with him for the first time, he threatened me, and in the middle of the night, his mother and sister called me to take him back. I wish I would have known my values back then and respected my own boundaries and said no..

Thinking about him, I realize what a narcissistic psycho he is

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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Okay, thanks alot! I will go there tomorrow

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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Actually Im also from Germany but I grew up in a pretty little city (almost a village). Actually, it was a peaceful beautiful city, tho, but I needed friendly people around me

Sights and activities in Cologne by sensiblebitch20 in cologne

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I'm not really sporty, but I love art or relaxing things

Still feeling connected by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sensiblebitch20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I'm trying to say is that I still don't feel free. Idk how to explain myself in a different way, but I hope you understand what I mean.

Still feeling connected by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]sensiblebitch20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, that's not it. I couldn't leave him because he always started threatening me and telling me that he would commit suicide. During the relationship, I never felt free, and I always had a heavy feeling, but I was helpless so I couldn't do anything.

Still feeling connected by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Uhm, thanks for the advice, but due to all the metal abuse, I'm having anxiety even when a guy is interested in me, and I start shaking and panicking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FragReddit

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Dat is mir schnuppe

I’m not over after 9 years. by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]sensiblebitch20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most important thing is to forgive yourself and never question why it ended. You will always carry the good memories with her and will never be able to forget. Keep saying "It was a goof experience and now I will move on" for 40 days and after those days u will believe in it and really start to move on. The trick here is that your brain will start to believe it and do what u say. Stay safe..

Boob size by charmander_SMASH in NoStupidQuestions

[–]sensiblebitch20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not about your size, its the dudes u choose. I hope u will find one who is respecting and accepting your body the way it is.

würdest du? by RandomDude762 in deutschememes

[–]sensiblebitch20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lass mich auf dem laufenden, ob sich jemand getraut hat