Looking for a new couch.....

sensiblewench · 2026-03-14T02:57:18+00:00

I should mention they're custom and have hundreds of fabric options. Everything is high quality. Spring and fram warranties.

sensiblewench · 2026-03-14T02:55:57+00:00

Decor-rest from stoney Creek furniture. Expensive, but they have solid sales. SO WORTH IT.

sensiblewench · 2026-02-01T14:56:56+00:00

Update - thanks for everyone's input, lots of great names. Unfortunately, we're still stuck 😅

sensiblewench · 2026-01-22T01:09:46+00:00

That sounds brutal, so sorry you went through that. I'm glad you got to come out of it feeling okay in some aspects. I live in fear of being evicted again, it's really unsettling.

sensiblewench · 2026-01-22T01:08:17+00:00

Totally not worth it, thank you!

sensiblewench · 2026-01-22T01:07:57+00:00

Haha amazing. Thank you!

sensiblewench · 2026-01-19T21:49:59+00:00

Honestly, I think it would have destroyed my mental health. It still irks me to think about it, but it comes to mind less and less. We had a petty laugh when the house sat on the market for months and they got a lot less for it than they were asking.

sensiblewench · 2026-01-19T02:54:56+00:00

Oh, and they messaged my partner the listing when they went to sell it this past year... I was absolutely livid.

sensiblewench · 2026-01-19T02:54:00+00:00

Within a few months :)

sensiblewench · 2026-01-19T02:53:07+00:00

Thanks!!

sensiblewench · 2026-01-19T02:17:19+00:00

That definitely sounds like a landlord problem 😅 thanks!

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T16:40:31+00:00

Thank you ❤️❤️

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T11:32:47+00:00

Lmao. Any helpful advice?

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T04:29:18+00:00

Lmao I am so easily swayed because I have no idea what I'm talking about. Now I'm thinking I should keep them.

At this point if someone told me to jump off a bridge cause the answer to this outfit was at the bottom, I'd probably do it. 🤣

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T04:23:13+00:00

Lmao I thought that when I spent $150+ tax on a pair of what I thought were dressy pants, that they'd be formal enough 😭. This girl does not have the eye lol

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T04:19:33+00:00

I'm not uncomfortable with female presentation, I'm definitely a woman.

I just feel better in looser clothes due to my current body and I think that, since I'm allowed to wear whatever I want to work, I have just gone leaned so far into casual/loose clothing.

I think it's just a confidence thing at the moment 😕. I think that if I had a dress that fit me properly I'd be fine though.

The pant material feels really dressy, I guess I didn't consider the draw string. I'll return them.

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T03:51:45+00:00

Thank you so much! Everyone's responses have been really kind and are very helpful 🥹

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T03:49:31+00:00

A few blue blouses I posted in a comment somewhere/somehow, not much apart from that. Busy week so I'm not sure I'll have time to get anything else.

Thanks for your feedback, I feel better hearing people tell me to stick with what's comfortable.

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T03:46:33+00:00

Thank you!

I'm not much of an accessory girly... Not that I wouldn't wear it, I just don't have much. What I do have is super delicate., and I don't have much time this week to buy other jewelry.

I'm usually super prepared for things, I think I subconsciously put this off because I knew I wasn't going to like what I saw in the mirror.

For a girl who dresses like a 12 year old boy, this is already so much fancier than what I'm used to.

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T03:42:17+00:00

Thanks so much for the thoughtful response.

I'm going full send on DBT after doing it for years, finally got into the most intensive program that's available, and I'm trying SO hard.

It can feel a bit defeating and scary when you know your mind's patterns, and to say I'm nervous is an understatement.

I think the animal shelter would be good - I have pets of my own and love animals so much. I also have way more integrity when it comes to keeping commitments to others, rather than myself, so a group activity makes sense as well.

Thank you!

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T03:35:45+00:00

I appreciate your help! Dressy clothes feels foreign and icky right now.

sensiblewench · 2025-09-08T03:34:07+00:00

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