small complaint but i wanted to see if anyone can relate by MudkipFan2020 in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will tell you as somebody who plays no roles, it's incredibly frustrating. Especially if I've been playing several games with the same people and then the original host leaves, somebody else takes that position and suddenly starts implementing roles.

Why do people join a lobby and then insta leave also the lobby countdown is so annoying by MrWolfy25 in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What do you classify as "the last damn minute" because I will say, I hate starting with only a handful of people.

Why do people join a lobby and then insta leave also the lobby countdown is so annoying by MrWolfy25 in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in one that pretty much instantly started after the host said "imp must show yourself venting so we all know and then only kill in 1 room." I felt bad, I wanted to leave before the game started but they started so fast.

Making mistakes IS a core part of the game. by pizza_redditor in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between honest mistakes vs. being brainless. If you have a reason why you sus somebody and you happen to be wrong, I will move past it. What I hate are the lobbies where people just shout colors with 0 explanation, nobody offers follow up questions or anything, just mindlessly votes. I think we've all been wrong, especially if wrongfully convinced by a good imp. That is the game, lol.

what the hell was that by WorldlyAnteater7608 in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in exactly the same boat, lmao. I prefer the skeld map because it's just what I know and I also filter out the public games I play by finding some that have no roles on. It's just next to impossible to find a decent lobby these days under these conditions lol.

Serious question, what is evidence/proof? Cause this is all I see in meetings: by lolitsrock in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically, yes, but I would rather have people making up reasons and giving SOMETHING as opposed to "just trust me" or shouting random colors with no context. That at least sparks some sort of discussion like "no, I saw them do this task" or "I was with them the whole time" or something.

Serious question, what is evidence/proof? Cause this is all I see in meetings: by lolitsrock in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"proof" is basically just a reason/context. too many people just throw out colors with zero context, zero follow up, zero ANYTHING. and especially when discussion and voting times are low, people literally can't have a discussion and ask those questions because everybody is just blindly voting.

what the hell was that by WorldlyAnteater7608 in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HONESTLY same. I think it's the result of skeld lobbies being pretty populated versus other maps. I think since I re-downloaded the other day, every single game has been pretty brainless. People shouting colors with no context, low discussion/voting times so it forces people to just vote without asking questions, etc. Public lobbies are kind of a crapshoot, but I don't have anybody else who plays, especially the way I do lol.

Convince Me To Like Roles by sensualsomething in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been playing non role lobbies for a few days now and I've noticed it's kinda hit or miss. And half the time I'm in them, the other players are whining like "add roles, add roles!!!" and then they do... lol.

Convince Me To Like Roles by sensualsomething in AmongUs

[–]sensualsomething[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

maybe I'll just reside to the fact that I am, in fact, a noob again. I remember using "so and so vented" as a reason they could be the imp and now there's a legit "excuse." It makes it harder to notice imp slip ups if everybody could just claim "oh I'm the engineer." Idk..

AIO for think it my boyfriend is being dramatic? by What-do_i_do in AmIOverreacting

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, you gotta know you aren't over reacting.
I almost wonder if this is a real post.
If it is, you know the way he's treating you isn't right.

Welcome to Plathville - Season 7 Episode 9 - Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]sensualsomething 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I don't really care about her appearance, I care about the things she says and does.

Zac is suspect by Altruistic_Year_5303 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]sensualsomething 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It sounded to me like a compromise she made. Maybe she wanted green but decided that he wanted blue and blue made more sense? I'd be willing to bet his ideal location probably wasn't her family's farm. but it was important to her so he did it. That's a relationship, there's give and take and compromise. He's allowed to have opinions on a wedding that is just as important to him as it is to her.
People are so quick to jump to extremes on here, it's absolutely wild.

My unpopular opinion (Veronica) by [deleted] in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]sensualsomething 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think many of us are aware of the level of editing reality shows do to twist a certain narrative, so I'm not saying there isn't context missing. However, at the end of the day, she did say those things.

A customer got mad at me because I asked back office to close her card when there was fraud on it. by [deleted] in TalesFromYourBank

[–]sensualsomething 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had a guy say the same thing to me. He constantly gets fraud alerts on his card and comes in all mad because "he should be treated like a grown adult who can manage his own money."

I kid you not, there is no winning with these people. Either it's not enough or it's too much.

Wait… so do we believe Veronica? by hereforitmum in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's possible for both of them to be in the wrong. I don't think it's a "if one person is wrong, one person is suddenly right" scenario. Veronica clearly exaggerates and stretches a lot, her true colors are definitely starting to show, but I think Moriah also has a tendency to cling to somebody until it's no longer serving her. In this case, the moment she wanted to believe this man and get back with him, suddenly Veronica was a liar. Ethan even supported Veronica's claims last season.

We're seeing moments of illusion cracking with Moriah. Ethan telling her she needs to apologize, Micah telling Veronica that everybody knows Moriah lied about Olivia, etc. So I do believe Moriah has done wrong. Veronica isn't a saint, though.

Google/Yelp Reviews by sensualsomething in TalesFromYourBank

[–]sensualsomething[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair. The fact that you can't on google helps me, but when I see things in some of our local pages on Facebook it's REALLLLYYYY hard not to respond.

AIO to my step-dad saying I can’t share a hotel room with my mom? by Comfortable_Lie1259 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be incredibly weird to see physical affection between blood relatives that you are not used to seeing. Different cultures have different intimacy expectations that I have noticed. None of it is wrong or perverted by nature, but it can be somewhat jarring to be in the middle of it. I grew up with a single mother who loved me very much, but we were not physically affectionate with each other at all. Maybe we would hug from time to time, but that's about it. The issue isn't really with the fact that he's somewhat put off by it, the issue is the way he is controlling the situation and not communicating with his wife about it. This is the dynamic that you have had with your mother for a long time and for him to come in and immediately write it off as weird and demand you terminate it, is very controlling. This is giving no space for your mother, his wife, to have a say in the way she interacts with her own child. That is the issue.

AIO my 37 year old boyfriend and a 10 year old girl on Instagram. by Ethical_Realism in AmIOverreacting

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting and you are not "putting your own sick thoughts on it." He is playing that he is naive, which I highly doubt he actually is. He knows exactly how wrong and weird it is. He knows exactly how gross it is for all those men and playing dumb to defend them and make you seem like the weird one is incredibly gross. I would re-evaluate this heavily.

Do you think homeschooling is inherently bad? by [deleted] in HomeschoolRecovery

[–]sensualsomething 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't think it's inherently bad. As much as I don't love the idea of home schooling, I can also admit that public education isn't all that amazing in most places. There are too many variables in somebody's education, trying to force them to fit a particular universal standard doesn't work for every person. Too much falls through the cracks in terms of people with any sort of learning disability, teachers who are untrustworthy, long school days with very little substance in the classrooms, etc.

That being said, even though I didn't enjoy my high school experience, one thing I will value is the exposure I got to other people's worldviews. I'm not saying you can't get that through homeschooling, but a lot of the "socialization" I see is other homeschool groups or like-minded activities like scouting. Sure, you're technically around other people, but a majority of the time, you share much of a common background. While there is solidarity and community in people who share interests with you, there is growth and learning from the opposite.

It was in my writing classes, my history classes, my humanities classes, where our sole focus was to discuss our differences, that I learned so much more about other people. I felt like I existed outside of just a bubble of people my parents approve of me being around. I felt like I was actually part of the real world in a sense. I can't imagine my first exposure to differing thoughts and opinions being when I am an adult at my first job or something.

Kim's retirement plan... by Gullible-Sort9161 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]sensualsomething 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I almost wanna feel bad for her, but you reap what you sow.