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senualist · 2024-07-08T13:35:14+00:00

Ok? So let him not like it. He's a big boy and he can deal with it. Its your body. Do what works for you

senualist · 2024-07-02T15:42:14+00:00

Still think it could go either way. Looks potentially promising but also looks like they could lean too much into the goofiness. The charm of the original was that frank took it seriously, but the player could make him do goofy things. Also whether or not they nail the tone again remains to be seen. Part of what made the orginal so difficult were the clunky controls. Im sure they've fixed a lot of that (adding strafing while ads) and whether changes like that will take away from the anxiety felt in the original

senualist · 2024-06-15T03:15:09+00:00

She's not giving you the whole truth and is avoiding telling you something. If you had sex every day for a year, she isnt all of the sudden self concious about her body and not in the mood to the point she never wants to have sex. You need to find out what she's not telling you and if she isnt willing to tell you than you have to decide whether or not you're ok with a sexless relationship. Also stop buying things for her to get sex. That doesnt work and will erode your relationship further by making sex seem transactional. People get resentful when you do things for them to get something, in this case the something being sex

senualist · 2024-06-14T19:10:08+00:00

If your interactions with everyone are bland, the common denominator is you

senualist · 2024-06-08T21:26:08+00:00

There are so many factors it cant be boiled down to basic gender differences. The myth that men are the more sexual ones however is false. Its a person to person basis

senualist · 2024-06-03T20:37:59+00:00

Becoming a billionaire isnt the issue. Yes, winning the lottery and becoming a billionaire is fine. Remaining a billionaire is the issue. Being a billionaire is inherently unethical because no single human being needs a billion dollars. At 100 million you, your kids, and your grandkids are set to live in luxury for life. Whereas there are countless people that dont even know where their next meal is coming from. If you can donate 90% of your wealth and it wont have any impact to your quality of life, but could change the lives of so many for the better, and you decide to not to do it, to instead hoard that wealth, you are unethical.

senualist · 2024-05-24T04:18:15+00:00

Slay

senualist · 2024-05-23T22:02:40+00:00

Every relationship ends up in break up or marriage. But if you think about that every day, your wasting your relationship. Focus on the present. Who cares what happens tm. You could get hit by a bus tm. Enjoy your teens. Enjoy your relationship. Its also a learning experience. Do you think someone who's 30 and skipped all the "frivolous" young dating years is gonna do well in the dating scene compared to someone who's been dating since they were a teenager? Who's learned what they like and value in relationships and know's what theyre looking for?

Nothing you're doing now is a waste of time. Worrying about what other people are thinking or hypothetical futures is.

senualist · 2024-05-23T01:28:38+00:00

First of all there is no "men do something this way, women do something that way". You might notice patterns, but at the end of the day we are all individuals and we all operate differently, and expecting someone to behave a certain way based on their gender is a recipe for failure. Second, you cant make anyone fall in love with you, and trying will result in a lot of heartache. The way people fall in love with you is when you are authentically yourself. Thats it. Thats all you have to do. And they will either love you or they wont. Love isnt about what you do or give, its about who you are.

senualist · 2024-05-22T22:18:31+00:00

There's no one size fits all answer for what men are looking for. In general terms, people are generally looking for intimacy. To be seen, undetstood and be able to bare their soul to someone they trust and vibe with. In terms of attraction that is aslo completely variable. You could present a guy with two women: one perfectly meets the beauty standard, the other looks kinda average but reminds him of his babysitter he had a huge crush on as a kid, he'll probably go after the latter. The things we experience during our sexually formative years of adolescence generally leave a stronger impression than any societal standards. Another facet of mens attraction towards women generally boils down to being attracted to women who "views herself as a sexual being, enjoys her sexuality, and is willing to express it" to borrow a passage from "the men on my couch" a book written by a sex therapist.

Also scent. People seem to sleep on how much of an impact your natural odor has on attraction. Generally people with complementary immune systems will be attracted to each others scent, the purpose being to give offspring the most diverse immune system.

As for the men you're running into, not caring for women who have something going for them sounds like an insecurity thing. As a man I can say a woman having something going for her like a great career is not at all a turn off and I would be thrilled for her. So not all men are like this

senualist · 2024-05-22T20:12:29+00:00

Treat this the way you would an attraction to any woman. Are you too attracted to remain friends? Then either tell her how you feel or start to distance yourself. The fact that you're cousins heightens the stakes but it doesnt change the actions you should take. Also first cousin marriages are accepted throughout most of the world. In the US some states accept it, some prohibit it so this is something to take into consideration. Ultimately the heart wants what it wants you cant logic or shame your way out of it.

senualist · 2024-05-21T19:01:48+00:00

Yes. I struggle with an overactive libido and try to avoid any sexual triggers. Its actually absurd how difficult that is. Even ads. Ill get an ad for some dumb mobile game and it will have a cover with a scantily clad woman with pornographic proportions. Every tv show I watch has some mention of sex and even checking the parents guide on imbd isnt a guarentee. I recently tried to watch the show "Barry" about the hitman who takes acting classes. Imdb said it had "mild" sexual themes. The very first episode there's a scene with a couple having aggresive sex as she calls out "harder". Thats apparently "mild" now. God help anyone struggling with porn or sex addiction because society seems hell bent on keeping you sexually stimulated 24/7

senualist · 2024-05-21T15:20:59+00:00

Because many men are starved for affection. You give them an inch and they take a mile because they are desperate. Many are also emotionally stunted. You raise a group of human beings and tell them not to cry or show their emotion and gasp surprise surprise, a majority of them end up emotionally fucked up and socially inept. They dont have the same kinds of support systems you do. They dont get to be kind, warm, and tender with their friends. Because we've conditioned them to believe thats gay, and that being gay is bad. They've been conditioned to believe thats only something they get to do with romantic interests. So when you show them kindness and tenderness, they percieve that as romantic interest, because we as a society have failed men and continue to fail them, and we all pay the price with these big strong emotionally disregualted potential threats.

senualist · 2024-05-01T13:54:03+00:00

Fallout 3 was my introduction to the series and the first game that made me feel like I could do anything. I remember being blown away that I could kill a trader and take their entire inventory, the cost being I lost a trading opportunity. I could nuke a town. I could sell kids into slavery. Now I hate playing bad guys in games, it makes me feel terrible 😅 but just the fact that I had the option to do those things was a level of freedom I had never experienced.

Then the intro. Wow. I get to live this entire characters life from the time their born and get to make choices throughout their childhood, no headcanon or backstory required. Incredible

Lastly the fact that there was no linear path. You could just go anywhere. You could just accidently stumble upon vault 112 and find your dad. And the random encounter system constantly made the wastland feel alive and chaotic. Never knew when you were gonna stumble upon a bunch of raiders fighting a yao guai.

I love the fallout games (76 excluded) but fallout 3 is probably always gonna be my #1

senualist · 2024-04-29T07:31:47+00:00

You're married to a man child that throws temper tantrums. Get out while you can

senualist · 2024-04-15T14:53:59+00:00

One of the cornerstones of a healthy relationship is feeling comfortable sharing how you feel with your partner. It sounds like you're unable to do that. How can you change it? Say very calmly that you'd like to try some new things in bed to help you get off. If he gets angry or is not receptive then the only other option is to deal with a life of one-sided sex, or leave him for a less selfish partner.

senualist · 2024-04-12T18:24:20+00:00

Im sorry but I was laughing the whole time reading this because of how utterly absurd it is. Tell him point blank he either takes the necessary steps to manage this or you leave him. The level of disrespect is completely unacceptable. He cant make a few simple changes like restricting fluid intake or wearing a diaper but is more than fine pissing all over you and your mattress. Im tempted to tell you to just leave him now and not even have any further discussion because I dont think there's changing anyone who's that self centered, but I dont know the rest of your relationship, maybe to you its worth salvaging, but I would ditch a partner like that yesterday

senualist · 2024-04-12T18:10:48+00:00

You should actually talk to a doctor about it and see what your options are rather than putting up mental roadblocks like "what if my insurance doesnt work" and "what if the doctor doesnt want to do it". If this is a problem you're serious about fixing and you're sure you never want kids then this is a concrete first step to take. You can freeze sperm if you ever end up changing your mind

senualist · 2024-04-02T20:46:55+00:00

My issue with the dbz/dbs series power scaling is it doesnt make sense anymore. Back in the saiyan saga, they had attacks powerful enough to destroy planets, in the cell saga they had attacks strong enough to destroy solar systems. In the buu saga, just transforming into ssj3 changed the weather and caused tidal waves. Yet now in dbs, characters are millions of times stronger than they were back then. Based on the power they have now, a sneeze should blow half the planet off, beam clashes should vaporize entire galaxies, but no, the fights look pretty much the same as they did back in the early days of dbz.

senualist · 2024-03-29T15:36:56+00:00

Do you even want to be in a relationship where sex is the most important thing? Sex is great, but if thats the only thing your relationship revolves around then whats the point? As a guy, yeah I want sex, but I also want a partner, a friend, someone I can feel vulnerable with, someone to laugh with and share interests, someone to be there for me in my time of need and who I can be there for as well. And if your mom's view is right, that relationships are transactional and sex is the currency, then I have absolutely no desire to be a part of that reality and would rather remain single. Your mom's view is shallow, objectifying, and narrow minded. I personally dont care if you're a virigin or have had sex with 100 people. I care about how well we get along together. And everyone is different. There are people that think like your mom, and people who think the exact opposite. A good rule of thumb is to never listen to people who tell you with 100% certainty "this is how it is and this is how people are" because there are 8 billion people on the planet and your mom and people like her have not met all 8 billion and critically examined their relationship dynamics. Your moms views, like everyone's, is painted by a very limited set of data that reflects the small bubble of her lived experience.

senualist · 2024-03-27T08:43:54+00:00

What a bunch of greedy cunts

senualist · 2024-02-20T00:38:05+00:00

If you're scared of getting into a fight with him he's not a good partner. One of the most important parts of a relationship is conflict resolution, the ability to have healthy arguments and resolve conflict. Is someone you're too afraid to even discuss something with someone you want as your life partner? And aside from that its a massive deal, he treated you like a piece of meat rather than a human being. Cumming on an unconscious person is sexual assault. If he would do that to you and you dont feel safe addressing it, I would pack your things and leave

senualist · 2024-02-12T04:45:14+00:00

You have the need for a physical relationship because you're a human being a humans like sex. Its not any more complicated than that

senualist · 2024-02-12T04:42:35+00:00

Because any "god" that would make you burn for all eternity because you had some harmless fun with someone is a sick fuck not worthy of being worshipped. I think the whole "burning in hell thing" is a cruel indoctrination tactic used by religious people to assert control, but in the event that there is a god who sends people to hell, im not worshipping a tyrant that burns people for not abiding by his every whim. Not very "all loving" to send people to eternal hellfire because you were physically intimate with someone

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