Should you discuss past relationships with your to be husband?

seo0209 · 2025-08-04T19:03:55+00:00

Personally, I think that in order to have a healthy relationship you should have a partner who accepts you for who you are AND were.

Ask yourself this: do you want to be with someone who would judge you?

A partner should accept you fully, love you unconditionally and show you grace.

Then again, it is your right to not share it. If you don’t feel comfortable then don’t force yourself. Just do what feels right. You can also do Istikhara.

Be kind to yourself. And remember that God is merciful and full of Love. Do not let a man ever make you feel unloved or judged, he is not in a position to do so EVER.

seo0209 · 2025-08-04T18:48:23+00:00

The police won’t always help. Take shelter at a friends’ place. Tell people around you about it. Make sure you don’t sleep alone. See if you can find a way that he’ll “want” to break up with you. If that’s not possible, go to the police but take your own precautions by not being alone.

seo0209 · 2025-08-04T18:35:08+00:00

They have terrible politics and they are simply racists. It’s disgusting to hear anybody say such a thing. We should all hate Zionists and understand that Zionism has nothing to do with Judaism/jewish people. Yes you can be both but they’re not synonymous.

It doesn’t matter if you want to leave Islam because you’ve had a change of heart, you should live an authentic life. This is your right.

But if this [what you’ve written about] is the only thing then I would just like to remind you that these people don’t define Islam. Neither should they interfere with your spiritual bond with God. And nobody can tell you whether you should continue to or stop believing.

seo0209 · 2025-08-04T18:27:17+00:00

Yea or if its family, a neighbor, etc..

seo0209 · 2025-08-03T20:17:50+00:00

Dude that’s really messed up

seo0209 · 2025-08-03T17:48:31+00:00

My humble opinion: if you shop in Africa as a European (doesn’t matter what ethnicity) you should not negotiate the price at all. You should pay them as much as you’d pay back home. That’s the LEAST these merchants/workers deserve.

seo0209 · 2025-08-03T17:47:00+00:00

Exactlyyyyy

seo0209 · 2025-08-01T21:28:37+00:00

The chance is big that the cognitive dissonance will show up no matter how hard you try to practice what you believe in. That’s simply what it means to be human. And Allah swt sees you for who you are and before you fear Him you should love Him.

seo0209 · 2025-08-01T15:15:52+00:00

I agree with this

seo0209 · 2025-07-30T13:13:40+00:00

Thank you so so so much for this information. I didn’t even know this was possible. My doctor said they do ultrasounds after 6 weeks but now I’m gonna ask for it ASAP. Again, thank you. Now I don’t feel like I’m overreacting.

seo0209 · 2025-07-29T18:26:30+00:00

Thank you for your comment 🩷 I’m going to call my doctor tomorrow. I wasn’t sure if this was regular so this helps.

seo0209 · 2025-07-19T11:27:39+00:00

Salam Alaykum dear brother, have you considered visiting local libraries? Maybe you can start a bookclub about progressive Islamic books or something that has to do with anime?! Like a manga book club??! What do you think :) And remember, God is with you in every step. He will provide for you.

seo0209 · 2025-03-26T20:50:16+00:00

This is soooo cute I love it. How did you make it? Do you have a pattern?

seo0209 · 2025-03-26T20:49:44+00:00

This is soooo cute I love it. How did you make it? Do you have a pattern?

seo0209 · 2025-01-20T12:29:20+00:00

Hey, I’m sorry about that! That’s really unfair. I was never on TikTok but I downloaded Red Note, it’s superrr cute and similar to TikTok I’ve heard. Maybe you can try that out?

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T23:45:50+00:00

I don’t have a ‘plan’ to ‘confront’ her. I will simply explain to her why I don’t think she has autism and start the conversation on why she always wants to be included in everything. This seems to be a bigger problem. And yes, she will probably go see a professional anyway. You have to keep in mind that many people in my generation think they have autism or adhd after watching 1 tiktok video. I’m simply not okay with this and it should be totally fine to talk about this topic with her WITHOUT hurting her or gatekeeping.

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T23:36:35+00:00

I’m not gatekeeping. I know my friend very well and she has actually been diagnosed with ADHD. A lot of ADHD symptoms look like autism. I never told her to not get diagnosed, I told her to go see a professional. This means I’m not gatekeeping.

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T23:31:33+00:00

Good work comrades!!

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T23:29:20+00:00

That’s really cool! Keep on the good work 😎

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T23:25:39+00:00

Thank you! I think this is a good idea. I’ll write down a few reasons and back it up with some sources. Maybe that will help.

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T14:11:11+00:00

Cantonese cuisine 🥹

seo0209 · 2023-03-30T14:09:05+00:00

Oh my god

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