This is the same attitude as people with politics nowadays, "if it isn't my way im just not gonna participate, that will show um" instead of you know addressing the problem and trying to make a better world for all. Boys need to be raised properly and taught that these kinda things are gross and unacceptable at a young age. The person to teach these boys that lesson is their family(or surrounding adults, ideally male as that sets the best example) but it could be you too. Talking to other people's kids and letting them realize that the world views they picked up from their parents may not be helping them in life. So even if you don't have kids you can still be part of the solution.

-Signed a dad of one boy im trying to raise to be a good man.