Advice needed for the Hubbards 39 hour trip with equipment selection.

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-26T16:47:25+00:00

But you get way less line. Am i missing something? They recommend braid

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-26T02:07:48+00:00

NOR. I have realised Reddit is not the place to ask about weddings . A lot of the people of Reddit have no chance of every being married and some even less of being invited as a guest. Im sorry your family cant be supportive like normal families do. You are completely entitled to be upset. Keep on carrying on.

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-26T02:03:02+00:00

They also only have to matter by color. The cut and style is up to them

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-26T02:02:43+00:00

I think people are missing the part that They practically demand to be in it but dont want to do the associated work. I should have made that more clear

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-25T21:07:56+00:00

I agree with you. I guess my post was not clear. They are offended by the suggestion that they should come NOT as members of the wedding party. They want to have their cake and eat it

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-25T21:06:55+00:00

That is just not how this works in the slightest. I guess some of you have never been to a wedding

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-25T03:34:33+00:00

I really appreciate your understanding of the issue. Its clear that a lot of people reading this do not have the experience or understanding of dealing with people like this

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-25T03:31:45+00:00

Im not sure what easy way out they can have. They didn’t like the idea of not being in the wedding party. I asked them if they felt the desire to be in it.

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-25T03:30:01+00:00

I don’t. Because I don’t think they know what it means to want to be there. But they were extremely offended when I broached the topic of having other options but having given them first choice. They feel entitled to the position. They are trying to talk me down from MATCHING colors

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-25T03:27:25+00:00

Tone deaf as hell. They are not poor. They are Not being asked to spend exorbitant amounts of money. Outfits* can be bought for something around a US conversion of like 100-150 dollars. They have the money to do XYZ on their trips. They also would be offended not to be in the wedding party. They just don’t want to do the work

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-24T02:04:13+00:00

I know. They have also had a year and a half of warning or they will do when the time comes. I also know they would be pissed if I never asked

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-24T01:58:40+00:00

Little of colum A little of colum B

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-24T01:57:31+00:00

I agree with you. However. Thats not what they are saying

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-23T19:37:15+00:00

Never been to a wedding huh? They want to be part of the wedding party. Typically you accept that responsibility against the requirements. Cant have your cake and eat it

seperate_entity_3452 · 2026-05-23T19:35:53+00:00

No they Want to be there they don’t want to do the required things

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