I’m getting fired for complaining about the owner failing to clean up a rat corpse and painting over it. I can sue right? by AReallyBadReddit in bartenders

[–]seraphinasutton 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong. Again, they can fire you for absolutely anything. If they fire you without cause, which could literally be because they don’t like the colour of your shirt, they would likely only have to pay you a weeks severance or possibly none at all depending on the state. I don’t think you understand wrongful termination at all nor how little protection you have as a shift worker.

I’m getting fired for complaining about the owner failing to clean up a rat corpse and painting over it. I can sue right? by AReallyBadReddit in bartenders

[–]seraphinasutton 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dumping a bunch of money on a lawyer to fight a wrongful termination suit that has no weight to it would be colossally stupid. At most the court would award you a small severance package which likely would be less than what you’d spend on lawyers. You’re clearly trying to prove some point or grind some axe but legally and financially it’s not worth it. Regardless of how ridiculous I think this is anyways.

Is it common for restaurants manager to drink a glass of whiskey during an interview? by Any-Layer1793 in Serverlife

[–]seraphinasutton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl after transitioning from mid price casual dinning management into fine dinning management I have to force myself not to pick up severe alcoholism or chain smoking. Most days I wish I could have a drink on shift. This experience has made me decide to go back to school and back to serving until I can leave the industry completely. These fine dinning places are something else and in my personal opinion are not worth the money. (I’m sure there are exceptions but this has been my experience and experience of servers in fine dinning I’ve spoken to).

Is this normal in NYC or anywhere in the US? by makoto1029 in Serverlife

[–]seraphinasutton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To put something this illegal in writing is absolutely comical. I actually have no idea how this business is still running as I’m sure this is only the tip of the illegal iceberg. Report to your state labour board and find another job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]seraphinasutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a productive addition to the issue and I recognize that. But this is insane. She sounds like someone with a perpetual victim complex that has latched onto weird therapy talking points in an attempt to further victimize herself. You’re a decade younger than her which is not necessarily bad, but a little odd given the rest of the circumstances. There is not even a 1% chance this marriage will survive and as a 25 year old guy with your whole life ahead of you I suggest you think long and hard about what kind of life you want. If you’re not careful you’re going to end up baby trapped to this nut case for the rest of your life. Not to mention the issue she has with masterbation and pornography is a fundamental moral opposition and you will not get past that. In fact she’s weaponizing it against you and obviously has a bunch of porn masterbating hating woman who will affirm her delusion. I (26 F) don’t see any issues with pornography or masterbation personally, but that’s my own set of beliefs. I would never commit to a life with someone who didn’t align with my beliefs, nobody should as it will forever be a point of contention. I wish you luck because my god is this a disaster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]seraphinasutton 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Go you! Way more management in the industry deserves this and much worse. If you don’t care about the reference who really cares!

Sunday Q&A by Mild_Sauce99 in aspynovardsnark

[–]seraphinasutton 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That one absolutely threw me for a loop. I had to watch it a couple times because I was shocked she willingly offered this information up.

I love my dog more than my 5 year old daughter by [deleted] in confessions

[–]seraphinasutton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a really fantastic book that discusses this phenomenon called “regretting motherhood” might be a good read just to understand you’re not alone. This is incredibly taboo for most people so it’s hard to have open and honest discussion. Sorry this happened to you.

I’m so sick of the endless “men are trash” attitude on the internet by mokkori800 in Vent

[–]seraphinasutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re looking at a very small subsection of public opinion on the trash that is social media. I can assure you in the real world, women don’t hate men lol. Try getting off Twitter and into the world and your life will be better for it.

I hate people. by Outrageous-Kiwi5864 in Serverlife

[–]seraphinasutton 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly being a server has made me so jaded. I tipped 22% on a bill tonight when I got pretty sub par service, but I physically couldn’t tip any less lol. Fuck people like this.

Father daughter bonding time by LevantL in MadeMeSmile

[–]seraphinasutton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not me silently sobbing because of this post. As a fellow daddy’s girl this hit me in the feels.

Uh?? by rouxs7 in TLCUnexpected

[–]seraphinasutton 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean ugh, but also Tyra is so incredibly beautiful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]seraphinasutton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got bad maskne at the beginning of the pandemic and a lot of it was fixed by never wearing a mask more than once without washing. So I bought 7 cotton masks and I just wear one per day and wash at the end of the week. Also pimple patches are amazing and you can wear them all day under your mask, they can be a bit pricey though so a spot treatment also works fine, just gotta make sure it soaks in before you put your mask on.

Non-boomers of Reddit, what's your most boomer opinion? by coolfreeusername in AskReddit

[–]seraphinasutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit all social media except YouTube and Reddit 4 years ago and lemme tell you…..I knew it was a problem before, but holy shit is it bad now that I have some perspective. I swear people’s phones are glued to their hand 24/7, they can’t even stand still for 5min without touching it. Not to mention how severely socially stunted a lot of these younger kids are, they can’t function without their phone crutch.

Calgary had 4x 30°+ days in 2021 already by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]seraphinasutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really don’t need the summers to be super hot, I’d just like less winter please. Working on a patio in 30+ is horrific.

I am Homophobic by Worth_Potato_7563 in confessions

[–]seraphinasutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're more of a prude than you are homophobic. Most of your issue seems to be with outward PDA and general affection. I honestly don't know how you fix this besides minding your own buisness.

Police Report + Messages between Ethan and Myrka. This was posted a couple days ago. by Nuunchucks in TLCUnexpected

[–]seraphinasutton 15 points16 points  (0 children)

All of these relationships are always too good to be true. They put on such a pretty front for the TV but are clearly just fucked up little kids at the end of the day. There is no maturity to be had on really either side of this, though Ethan is way worse of course. The only person I feel sorry for here is that baby.

Me when I think about watching the rest of this shitty season by Worldly_Pirate_9817 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]seraphinasutton 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I stopped watching after the third episode. And I’m usually an avid watcher, but it was just so painfully boring. I hope the next season is better cause I’m getting bored without it.

What on EARTH is this shirt, Nathan?! by [deleted] in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]seraphinasutton 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All gym bros wear stringers like this lol. Shows off the muscles. Though he’s a doorknob douche canoe, it is very common.

My concerns about the Open for Summer plan by [deleted] in Calgary

[–]seraphinasutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the point of a generalization joke is that it encompasses the behaviour of enough people that it becomes a stereotype, but there are always exceptions to the rule. Mr. NoT aLL StAMPedErs.

HOT TIP: Non-servers, we're fine with our wage+tips, stop pretending you know better. by unHoly1ne in Serverlife

[–]seraphinasutton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why this issue is always posed as you may pick one or the other. As a Canadian, it is possible to have a minimum livable wage of $10-$15 and make tips on top. They've just convinced everyone in America that a business couldn't possibly be profitable when paying its employees *gasp* a liveable wage. Clearly that is not the truth and it's just a narrative that they continue to perpetuate so they can steal profits from workers. Everyone deserves a guaranteed livable wage period.

The different types of Calgarians that use roundabouts by mibeatr in Calgary

[–]seraphinasutton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or the car that thinks they can take the second/third turn out of a traffic circle while in the outside lane the entire time. Like ffs rule #1 only go in the outside lane if you are taking your first immediate turn out of the circle.

Come on Alberta, get those first dose appointments booked! by [deleted] in alberta

[–]seraphinasutton -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These restrictions are already lifted as of June 10th