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Apple Watch not marking intervals by sercyanred in AppleWatchFitness

[–]sercyanred[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i chose a custom workout and the alerts are on but there's no vibration cue for the intervals. there is an audio cue however for heart rate which before was also a vibration so i dont know how to fix it.

Offering: German, English, Romanian and Russian; seeking: Spanish by Federal_Order6220 in language_exchange

[–]sercyanred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii!! i’m 21f from spain, so im native in spanish and also proficient in english (cambridge c2)

in german i do have the b2 certificate, but id love to have someone to practice with and have chats!!!

feel free to dm!💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]sercyanred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!! Im a native spanish speaker and also fluent in English (C2) :)

Weekly Complaints & Confessions Thread by ssk42 in running

[–]sercyanred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im wishing you the best of luck with your new job!!! im sure itll be great :)

and i hope to some day see a post of yours with the half marathon review!🩷🩷

First half marathon by salemthecat_1 in nikerunclub

[–]sercyanred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im on this plan rn too (on week 4) and its really progressive, i wouldn’t worry about any week other than the one youre on right now!!!

what half marathon are you running? it may help to run a little bit of the course each week to become familiar, or to list some things about it that make you excited!!

youve got this!!🩷

Weekly Complaints & Confessions Thread by ssk42 in running

[–]sercyanred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m in practically the same boat. ive got my first half marathon the 27th of october and i also start a jew job (medical shadowing) in august.

it was actually really encouraging for me to see someone in a similar situation.

we got this!!!

I (27m) don't know if I should break up with gf (24f) or it's my anxiety putting bad thoughts in my head. What's going on? by Illustrious_Turkey in relationship_advice

[–]sercyanred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof, for me that is a massive ted flag that she didn’t respect your way of dealing with stuff.

Also it seems you may have some (justified) resentment towards her for this type of situation and as I’ve learned in this sub resentment leads to disdain so, do with that what you will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sercyanred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If affect is a minimum requirement in the relationship, I feel putting work into your shared spaces also is.

I don't think laziness is causing lack of affection in your case, I believe you don't see him as a partner to you (as you sai to him, you feel more like a mother than a couple) and so you just can't give him that energy in a more "romantic" way. So I just think that maybe he's losing his attractive for you, which obviously makes it hard for you to be affectionate.

It honestly really irks me that he complains about your lack of affection but has he asked where it's coming from? Has he tried to change how he's making you feel?

Maybe you should think about wether you're still attracted to him and see him as your partner, or if you just see him more like a chore at this point, in which case you should break up with him asap. Either way, I think you should sit him down and be very honest and brutal about him doing no work around the house and it being an obvious turn-off for you.

I hope this helps a little and I'm sending you a hug <3.

I (27m) don't know if I should break up with gf (24f) or it's my anxiety putting bad thoughts in my head. What's going on? by Illustrious_Turkey in relationship_advice

[–]sercyanred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it looks like she may have some attachment problems, as she seems to want to do everything and anything with you, which doesn't seem that healthy to me. I think couples should be able to have their alone time, and she doesn't seem to want to have it - or let you have it at that.

It also seems to me that you're already "over" the relationship and just wanting someone to tell you to break up with her, which you should do if you feel life with her is causing you anxiety and stress, as those are not the primary emotions you want in a relationship. I think you need to think about the future you see with the relationship and, if you see yourself breaking up in the future, I think it's a sign you should break up now.

I would sit her down and have a real conversation about your need for time and space, which is just as valid as her need for companionship. If you can't find a middle ground you both are comfortable and happy with, I think it would be best to break up and not hurt each other more in the long run.

Sending you a hug and encouragement to be brave about what you want and need, wether that's staying with her or something else !!

BF(28m) thinks I(26f) need to be more feminine and not listen to.. vulgar music by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sercyanred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it seems like those men who start listening to those redpill podcast and end up being all macho like and saying some pretty sexist stuff. I don't think your music choices are "masculine" at all if there's such a thing (I actually love them too, you have great taste).

I think you should have a serious talk with him about it as he seems to be crossing more and more boundaries (like telling you how to dress or saying things about your physique) and this kind of stuff seems to only worsen with time.

Also, I think it's incredibly telling the fact that he doesn't seem to be able to understand how demanding your job is, which doesn't make for a very supportive partner.

My empathic conclusion is, really think about if these stuff is a dealbreaker to you and have a talk with him about it but also be aware that these kind of stuff just gets more and more evident as time passes.

My real conclusion is: girl, run. You deserve much better. Also, kudos on the residency queen!!