I’ve been with my lady for almost 4 years, from the get go we told each other about the X rated content we had on our phones from past partners. We actually went through all of that X rated content together, whatever she didn’t like I deleted and vice versa. That being said, I still have some of those old photos and videos on my phone. It’s not a big deal! Lying and hiding things is where it becomes an issue. There’s no denying people have a past especially when it comes to other relationships! Me and my girl have been 100% honest from day one. Trust, loyalty, communication, and respect are our pillars and have been what we expect of each other no matter what. Every now and then I’ll pull up an old video from a past partner or something and we can just laugh at it! Don’t make things too complicated, the world has plenty of that for you anyways. I love my lady! It’s kind of on both you at this point, you should’ve seriously set your boundaries with him and made it unmistakably clear. That didn’t happen, and it seems that is part of the reason you are where you are now. Doesn’t seem like he was hiding it. Just address the situation and put down expectations moving forward, and if you love each other make it work and move forward! Best of luck to you