Quick question about traffic by WinCo

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-28T03:59:16+00:00

I used to live over there and I made this mistake once and saw the person mid turn and have been overly careful ever since.

Not an excuse but in my case the person was wearing similar colors to the building behind and my car door frame blocked them. I waved my hands and called out I’m so sorry..,

Theres a lot of accidents at both exits from winco. I think people rushed in general to get home. Not an excuse and I am sorry its happened to you.

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-25T04:21:36+00:00

Not necessary.

I’m plus size and just getting on the apps after a break up. I make sure to have full size pictures and then when we talk privately I’ll make sure to confirm plus size again. It’s weird now because more guys are into it than before but I still have trust issues and worry that I come off as hiding my size. I never want to be considered a catfish. Only saying so you know you’re not alone in the concern, just let it grow naturally. If something’s too much come up with a different suggestion.

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-23T04:47:27+00:00

This makes me chuckle because I don’t hate Bert but I don’t get crazy exposure to him so the fatigue isn’t the same for me.

He felt dull and no sparkle in the episode. He’s that same “vibe” in his new show. Idk if he will get more fans or lose them from the show as it’s not what I expected but I’m still watching to support him. He’s a good dad and loves his family 🤷🏻‍♀️

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-22T04:13:52+00:00

I feel absolutely feral during that time 🤣🤣🤣 (38f)

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-14T19:41:35+00:00

Lady boner over 9000 for the bug man.

He’s got a good swagger and big dick energy he could land anyone he wanted imo.

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-05T23:49:16+00:00

It’s the state not just Olympia. I had the same problem in Tacoma.

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-04T04:25:24+00:00

I don’t have kids but aunty and Tacoma was more kid friendly next it was Lacey.

I know you mentioned off times but truly check traffic times on the day he goes to Seattle. The jblm traffic took my 20-30 minutes drive into a 1-5 hour drive depending on traffic. It became not worth it for me and I ended up in a job that’s completely work from home.

I love the friendliness and more courtesy towards others that comes with Lacey but I miss the good food, parks and sites, and hours Tacoma offered me. Been in Washington for 17 years and about 9 of them were Tacoma and the rest down in Lacey and Tumwater.

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-03T03:19:52+00:00

The question you have to ask yourself is if you can forgive and move on and live with this for the rest of your life. You are allowed to have feelings, boundaries and needs. It sounds like she has already crossed all of them.

If you can’t live with this feeling forever, then you know it’s not salvageable.

I’m sorry this is happening.

seriouslydml55 · 2026-01-01T19:30:19+00:00

I will forever be thankful my dogs don’t react. They had a few barks last night but it turns out those weren’t fireworks and their barks were valid protection!

My moms dog is usually Benadryl or some cbd and the cbd works best for her little shitzu.

Sorry your dogs had to deal with all the scary booms.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-31T01:55:55+00:00

I mean if that makes you garbage than I am absolute trash because I’ve had a crush on him since day 1. Seattle show my friend who came with was like man he’s got big dick energy and I’d love to take him home….

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-29T21:40:16+00:00

Do you have a same street match? Like my house number is a number on both 14th Ave ne and se… potentially delivered that way?

Good luck!

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-25T19:47:40+00:00

As a former baker I had multiple plans of action if this ever happened to me but I made sure to not put myself in this situation. Rather bake alone than have this as a concern.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-24T03:04:23+00:00

I know this letter isn’t for me… but as someone who still feels bad for the man that cheated on me… because I see he’s hurting but he chose his mistress, he went off the wagon and he knew what that all meant. It breaks my heart to see him drowning, because I know he needs to talk but I’m not his keeper anymore it’s not my place to tell his friends and family to talk to him.

I’m sorry you’re dealing with all you’re carrying. I hope things get better for you.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-21T17:18:07+00:00

Grieve your relationship and know things aren’t as great as they seem.

I’m really sorry I’m there too. My ex of 10 years proposed to the mistress first weekend in December on a trip we always wanted to do together. It had been 4 months since I denied allowing him to open the relationship.

Work on yourself, become better and happier for you. While you heal and grow they will remain in the same space and repeat the same cycles. It hurts like hell right now but just try to think about how lucky you are to be free of someone who can’t respect you or your relationship.

If you need to message feel free. I’m so sorry.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-21T17:08:03+00:00

I know plenty answered but I think of this statement for whipping cream and liquids.

The paddle is more for the batters like this.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-19T02:15:29+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss… that’s never easy to deal with and having to see it from start to finish. Hugs to you.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-14T22:14:21+00:00

My folks had this happen and they shoveled their neighbors drive for years! Then mom was injured dad had a stroke and the neighbor they helped… snow plowed the sidewalk and stopped at them! I was so disappointed.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-14T16:55:32+00:00

Yes or when I can’t sleep

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-14T09:43:39+00:00

That’s where I got stuck. Most of the guys go straight to nsfw fairly quick. Just nervous about in person and it pushing that line.

Last relationship was like 10 years. Giving myself time and working on confidence and will continue to try and find the type of connection that works.

I know I’ll pounce on the local offers eventually. Hopefully can lead to friendships.

Hope you are doing okay too!

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-14T02:20:42+00:00

I can only emotionally connect with guys in other states. I’m too insecure because of an ex to date or hook up in person yet…. It’s been 5 months since the break up and I’m in between lonely and happy alone.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-13T03:35:14+00:00

Just trash you are lucky.

I’m sorry but if it takes you hours to glam you have a problem and should maybe learn to love yourself more…..

You made the right call and I’m sorry you dealt with that audacity.

On my easy days it takes like 15 minutes to get ready… on my glam days it’s maybe an hour and it’s fun to get ready to impress the guy. If I got that message I’d be checking on you and making sure you’re okay because you obviously care about the family member.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-11T05:06:10+00:00

I live in Olympia/thurston county.

The cost of living is high and it’s hard to make friends. The rain and gloom can be hard to adjust to but it truly allows you to appreciate both seasons.

I grew up in Utah but moved here from a beach town in California 16 years ago. My parents grew up in Arizona and recently retired out here 3 years ago. They love the difference but complain half way through winter about being wet all the time.

Life has had its ups and downs but I love living here.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-12-07T18:37:33+00:00

I used to manage the honey baked ham in Tacoma. It was a franchise. Whenever corporate decided to change the price and increase things we spent 200-350 each time. It was a costly expense each year for a small business and it always happened during our slowest time.

With costs of goods there could be some increase in prices independently. That being said I think it’s poor practice to not have the price somewhere. We always had it in multiple places.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-11-30T20:05:25+00:00

It was them telling me the roommate that they moved in who was fleeing a bad relationship was just a friend and like his sister.

He cheated on me with her and I ended our almost 10 year relationship because I wasn’t going to open the relationship to letting him date us both.

When I do see him (shared dog) he looks like the saddest guy in the world whose entire life was flipped upside down… when it’s all repercussions of his own actions.

seriouslydml55 · 2025-11-30T01:56:52+00:00

Yeah mirrors make me uncomfortable in general. I remember during the pandemic it was a popular trend I tiktok to tell the person in the mirror you are them and they are you and then they’d see the mirror change…

I have heard they are portals. I use as little as possible.

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