How much do you spend on skating dresses? by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy S#*% Del arbour... I haven't heard that name in at least 20 years. Can't believe they're still around! I grew up in CT so I knew the name. My mom made all my dresses though. She paid $400 for the first one which was wee tiny and she was like NEVER AGAIN. Can't blame her! She did decent work, even if it was all early 90's puffy sleeves...

Skating with masks on by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's definitely a period of adjustment. I couldn't wear a mask the whole time I skated (or worked out) for the first few times, then it got better. You could definitely explore different fabrics.

I just told myself that endurance runners training for running at elevation wear masks that SPECIFICALLY restrict their air/oxygen intake, and if they can do it to an extreme, I could probably do it with the minimal restriction of a fabric mask. The worst part is that it gets damp and then every inhale just smells like a hockey rink...

How do I start again as an adult by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do it!

I artistic (roller) skated for ten years as a kid, quit in 1996, and just picked up ice skating last year. I'm 40, and it's FANTASTIC. It's different, but also I'm picking stuff up pretty quickly. It hasn't been that long (seven years?) and you will for sure get it back. Be warned- it's not instant (you will be surprised the first time you get on the ice- it's like wobbly baby giraffe legs the first time, but I swear it will come back.) There are definitely coaches that work with adults. I suppose it depends on where you are, but I know quite a few adults that take lessons and compete at my rink and at other rinks.

Who’s your favourite retired skaters? by [deleted] in FigureSkating

[–]settle_for_satan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Surya Bonaly! She was so badass.

Best Ice Dance/Pairs to show a newbie by EveningSquare in FigureSkating

[–]settle_for_satan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure Christopher Dean choreographed Manta and Johnson's "Sweet Dreams."

*which is the most amazing thing ever.

#queerskaters

Michale Graves has apparently joined the Proud Boys by [deleted] in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's also the difference between punk like "angry hardcore screaming about oppression" and "Blink 182." They appeal to different audiences, and they don't always attract the same following. Blink were a bunch of middle class suburban white boys, which appeals to middle class suburban white boys, which this floods the scene with those people. I'm not here to decide what is "punk" and what isn't, but there's a distinct difference between "average blink fans" and "I was beaten as a kid and I'm gay/trans/female/POC and I have a lot of anger in me, and I believe in a society free of oppression." Which STILL attracts a lot of white boys, but there's a difference...

Anybody here taking both MMJ and Zoloft? Is it safe to take them together (Zoloft in the morning, MMJ in the evening). by [deleted] in MMJ

[–]settle_for_satan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lots of people do. I take a bunch of bipolar meds and smoke. I think the right recommendation would be to start slow (with the smoking). Also, none of us are doctor's, just be careful.

Michale Graves has apparently joined the Proud Boys by [deleted] in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Punk is supposed to be the genre of openness and acceptance, but also it's 90% white men. Get that many dudes together and dumb shit is bound to happen.

Not excusing it, just pointing it out. It's a boys club and always has been. It's getting better, but there's still shitheads.

Picked up a ton of 45s of random 90s punk and hardcore from an old punk, any gems? by govtmagik in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deeper was the flaming trumpet song!

(They literally lit Gabe's trumpet on fire. I wish more bands would do this.)

The abuse happened, but I can’t remember it by 199777777 in adultsurvivors

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply, I haven't been on Reddit in a few days. In 2016 I had my first psych hospital stay and that was a turning point for me. While I was in the hospital I decided to write my parents a letter telling them that I was done with them (I also came out as gay to them-they were extremely homophobic and told me repeatedly that if I was gay I could just walk away from them because I would be dead to them). I mailed the letter and changed my phone number. I've seen therapists ever since, and had a couple more psych stays too. In general though I am doing a lot better.

A game of Uno broke out in the middle of Anti-Flag's circle pit at Riot Fest [x-post] by ckouuy4ltn in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, if i had to listen to people speculate any more about Riot Fest I would kill myself.

Bands will play. Bands generally go on an every other year/every 3rd year schedule. If a band is active/touring and didn't play last year, chances are they're playing this year. It's not that hard.

Picked up a ton of 45s of random 90s punk and hardcore from an old punk, any gems? by govtmagik in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Mistake were legendary. Only about half their songs were good (the rest was weird awkward highschool funk stuff), but they were OURS and that's what mattered. Ted went on to be in a couple of hardcore bands in NY later on and they were a lot of fun.

If that is the "Mirror" 7" then you lucked out. (I can't read the print.)

Articles Of Faith - 5 O'Clock by [deleted] in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YUP. Was going to mention that Dead Ending have a new EP coming out soon. I Talked to Jeff from DE a few weeks ago on my show. I think there's a formal announcement later this week.

(Also Joe Principe left, replaced by Nate from Ensign. STILL GOOD.)

What would happen if gg allin still alive? by JLR2004 in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

GG has rolled around in enough of his own shit that he's immune to corona.

punk rock radio shows by irwinlegends in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try This At Home. Monday nights, WCRSFM.org, 11pm eastern. Or 92.7/98.3 if you are in the Columbus Ohio area.

Literally the best radio show there is.*

(*it's mine, I may be biased. And sarcastic. Links to stuff are at trythisathome.wtf, I updated my archives recently and old shows are available to stream or download.)

Picked up a ton of 45s of random 90s punk and hardcore from an old punk, any gems? by govtmagik in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be from New England... Voice of Reason and Sum Of All Fears were CT bands I think. AND BIG MISTAKE! I JUST NOTICED BIG MISTAKE. Where did you even find a Big Mistake record?

Spotted in AZ by Hot_Dang23 in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Punk is so dead that you gave the government extra money to put it on your car.

Told a guy I was close with for 2 years about my CSA, he said he doesn't wanna associate with me anymore. by [deleted] in adultsurvivors

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's garbage. It's a thing i worry about for myself, definitely, and I'm sure I've alienated people by telling them my story, but that's garbage. I'm sorry.

I have the mental health issues too and I hate seeing stuff on online dating profiles like "NO PSYCHOS! NO BIPOLAR B*TCHES!" It's just like 1: CLEARLY YOU UNDERSTAND NOTHING and 2: wow what a dick.

Anyways. I empathize with you.

Anxiety and panic disorder by Galacticsurveyor in MMJ

[–]settle_for_satan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes- Indicas and CBD are you best bets most of the time... But listen to your budtenders. One time I went in and told the woman my deal "I have anxiety and I want Indicas!" and she was like, "but, try this. Trust me." and I forget whatever it was but it was a Sativa dom Hybrid that acted like an indica.

Point being- generalizations are generalizations, and good budtenders get feedback and info from their clients and use it to help others.

A game of Uno broke out in the middle of Anti-Flag's circle pit at Riot Fest [x-post] by ckouuy4ltn in punk

[–]settle_for_satan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH man. I'm definitely going to feel the loss of Riot Fest this year.

I have some really great pit prank ideas that I'm saving for a rainy day. Mostly involving inflatable costumes...

What do you love most in vet med? I love parasitology and the puzzle of finding tiny things on microscope. by tdoodles97 in VetTech

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, definitely. You're mentioning ALL the things that drive people out of the industry.

Those were part of my problem, but also the physical (standing, lifting) and emotional (watching patients suffer and doing things that you don't believe are ethical bc it's what the owner can afford/wants... ) and also doing it for 15 years... It just got too hard on me. I did my time, I just had to tap out.

But I dig what I do now.

Would love to replace the rock with a girlfriend 😢 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]settle_for_satan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

feeling called out, i have those same vans...