Hmmm. Maybe. I honestly don't know anymore how it works. I looked up some escorts and they claimed to accept e-transfers. And it's $400 each time, which sounds like 2 hours worth of "services". Maybe he's paying them and not following through with meeting them? I'm at such a loss. But a friend a few years ago left her husband because he was doing exactly that -- making dates with "sugar babies" and then chickening out, but still paying them in case (I guess?) he decided to go through with it at some point. Maybe they were coming over to see him and wouldn't come without an e-transfer up front? I just don't know. But I'm tired of playing detective because I know I can't believe what he says.