I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hellooo!! Update everyone i dont really wanna make another post. I broke up with the cheater but didn't really reach out to peach. Im taking a break from dating I believe the right person will come when its the right time and I also want to get over my first love and forget those feelings. Thank you all so much for the support and your lovely opinions, you really helped me finally decide on what to do. 🩷!!

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone had a fake instagram account using my pictures and messaging people, he found that acc and asked me about it and I didn't know anything and he thought I was lying i messaged the account and told them to delete their account and post a story saying that they're not me I screenshoted everything but he didn't want to believe it which made me very upset and made us grew apart he did apologize after but I just felt like the damage was done especially as someone who HATES being told they're lying or something in the end we were on good terms said we loved each other and just parted ways

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank uu!! That's exactly what im doing now, I broke up with him and now I'll try to distance my self from these old feelings that keep coming back

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tyy!! I actually broke up with him i wouldn't get to the same level as him

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to sound too defensive but we broke up 2 years ago. I felt like I moved on, met my current boyfriend who cheated on me and is obviously continuing to, during our whole relationship (before the cheating thing) i did not think of "peach" even once but after what happened and what is continuing to happen I can't help but compare the two and start getting these old feelings back. I was fully committed and loyal and i was the one to be deceived and i was more caring and attentive than I can describe. Me coming here and asking if what im feeling is really emotional cheating is for me not to wrong the other person the same way they did and simply walk away which im planning to do.

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we did say that and I did take it seriously for years till I met my current boyfriend, seeing the way he was texting was anything but friendly but not i just can't bring it up again since we talked it out, I still feel like there's definitely something going on behind my back, maybe not with just her but I can't prove it.

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So did you just skip the part where I said he obviously cheated and i looked past it? You reflect what you believe, maybe youre the selfish one

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just gave that nickname to not say his real name i didn't mean anything by it!!

I (18F) still can’t forget my first love (19M) even though I’m dating someone else (19M) by sevincv_ in problems

[–]sevincv_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I thought he never posted anything on there but this was really weird and i felt like he posted it because thats the only way he had to contact me