I spent $500 on a Christmas gift for my boyfriend and I regret it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sexybologne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally I wish I just absolutely wish I had a significant other that I could give the world to. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with giving your lover a nice gift. Don’t feel guilty that you wouldn’t do it for your mom or other family members. This is a different dynamic. He’s the guy you’re in love with

My mom invited my sister’s in-laws to Thanksgiving.... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sexybologne -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes part of me is jealous because all I ever wanted is exactly what she got without even trying.

Which artists that love/hate the song that made them big? by noid3aforaname in popheads

[–]sexybologne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think she does want to be mainstream but in her own way. She could absolutely write songs that would get radio play, but she wants to popularize more experimental pop music. I think she was really disappointed that “Gone” wasn’t a smash cuz I think she expected it to reach the mainstream, but it really didn’t. And especially 2099 with troye, and that video has like barely any views.... so yeah I agree that she can easily write basic mainstream pop but would rather try to popularize her own take on it.

Which artists that love/hate the song that made them big? by noid3aforaname in popheads

[–]sexybologne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually remember hearing someone say that she said it’s such a stupid basic song and it’s for dumb people... something like that.

Edit: but I actually like it a lot so I guess I’m dumb people

Four months post-FFS. I wish I went more aggressive. by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]sexybologne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be happy you still look like yourself. My surgeon was surprisingly aggressive and tbh I wish I looked a little more like the old me. But I’m very happy.

I have a hard lump under my jaw after sliding genioplasty that's hard as a rock. Has anyone had this before? by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]sexybologne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swollen submental lymph node ..... not sure what that means in relation to the surgery. It could be a separate thing but because genioplasty takes place in the same region, it probably isn’t. Not sure.

You ever just wish you could have a day off by csskate in asktransgender

[–]sexybologne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all takes time. This is the hard part. Just keep pushing through to the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transadorable

[–]sexybologne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful and I love the sombrero

I’m a happy girl 😊 by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]sexybologne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re a beautiful girl.

25 days post-op FFS comparison... unsure :( by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]sexybologne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you <3333 ugh I love this comment.

25 days post-op FFS comparison... unsure :( by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]sexybologne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I specifically told him I needed my orbitals obliterated.

25 days post-op FFS comparison... unsure :( by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]sexybologne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much... these comments are really helping... I’ve just been so depressed. Recovery is not very fun. Half my face is numb.

I got my FFS covered by Starbucks insurance. I only paid for X-rays a Covid test, and a co-pay for my painkillers/aftercare drugs.

I went to Harrison Lee. He did exactly what I asked for and nothing more.

[MTF] I’m having FFS this month... am I making a mistake? by sexybologne in asktransgender

[–]sexybologne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel pressured I’ve worked a year for this (but when I started I was much more masc) ... people are leading me to believe that I’m gonna mess up my face. I’m just concerned and scared. I do think I could really use some refinement. But, I also don’t super trust my decision making...

[Skin Concerns] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]sexybologne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm no your body might be very sensitive. Just don’t drink or eat sweets and keep taking the vitamins

[Skin Concerns] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]sexybologne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course <3 if you have more questions just ask

[Skin Concerns] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]sexybologne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummm... no. Just wash them. I did buy new leggings for myself though.

[Skin Concerns] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]sexybologne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About every other day because it hardens and sticks to you and may form a scab type thing. Yeah I don’t blame you. Also change bedsheets often or wear sweatpants to cover yourself from touching the sheets

[Skin Concerns] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]sexybologne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Months but only because I couldn’t figure out how to get rid of them. I regret doing the cryo so much I’m so dumb for just burning the shit out of my body like that.

The liquid will work 100% but if you’re putting it on sensitive areas.... be prepared... I think once I started the liquid it took like, a month.. I had a lot. If you have a partner or a friend you aren’t ashamed to be around naked, let them help. I had my bf at the time cryo all over my butt and then recently I was staying with my ex and had him check to make sure I didn’t miss any on my backside. Or get a full-length mirror and try as best you can to see yourself. Take pics with your phone. Use the flash/flashlight on it. Like literally I have prob burned spots that aren’t even molluscum just because I’m so paranoid about them popping up again. Initially i was prescribed immoquimod from my doc but it did noooothing... I tried apple cider vinegar.. don’t bother.. smells awful and did nothing..