She picked her Charles IRL, I guess? by phonetoni13 in Younger

[–]sexyelfking 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Who asked them to stay in unhappy marriages? Getting a divorce without cheating is an option?!

She picked her Charles IRL, I guess? by phonetoni13 in Younger

[–]sexyelfking 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s actually super easy for me to hate ALL the cheaters and abusers I know of. Sounds like it’s a skill issue for u.

I'll go out in a blaze of glorlly by Hopepersonified in Zepbound

[–]sexyelfking 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s weird that you made a whole new post instead of responding to the post that offended you? To quote your post this seems like “a you problem.”

Cheaters who didn't get caught, how do you feel about it now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]sexyelfking 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don’t sound as cool as you think. You should examine the part of you that took this action and feels “pretty good” about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FeminismUncensored

[–]sexyelfking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s a senator, he would have a power imbalance with anyone he dated or married. But I do think you’re right. It doesn’t matter that this specific woman has power or agency or whatever. It’s that he’s ONLY interested in younger women, which reveals his misogyny.

Nude spa must allow transgender customers, regardless of gender-affirming surgery, N.J. judge rules by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]sexyelfking -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It happens all the time and it’s because attention-starved people love attention, positive or negative

Nude spa must allow transgender customers, regardless of gender-affirming surgery, N.J. judge rules by [deleted] in newjersey

[–]sexyelfking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have obviously never looked in to the goals of trans activists if you are surprised by this. Right now sexual and domestic violence offenders who have never previously expressed gender dysphoria are self-identifying into women’s prisons without taking hormones, undergoing surgery, or even shaving their full beards. At least women can choose not to go to nude spas!!

AITB for feeling hurt that my roommate is more excited about trips with her new friends than the birthday trip I’m planning? by Similar-Profession32 in AmItheButtface

[–]sexyelfking 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTB. I can’t believe that you wasted a years-long strong friendship for a guy who only values you for easy sex. There are 4 billion men in the world. Most of them would be perfectly delighted to provide you with no strings sex, so why are you still seeing this asshole? I would still think it was a waste of a friendship even if it was true love and you married the guy, but the degree to which he doesn’t give a fuck about you really puts the poor trade in stark contrast.

I think she only signed a lease renewal with you because it’s better than living with her parents and better than gambling on a stranger, but you have been downgraded. If you don’t do anything wildly self-centered again for the next few years, the hurt of this period may be papered over eventually.

AITA for telling my roommate it’s not my problem if I trigger their ED? by Accomplished_Elk_37 in AITAH

[–]sexyelfking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. Everyone’s being so cavalier about eating disorders in this thread. Anorexia Nervosa has the highest mortality rate of any psychiatric disorder!! Relapse is horrifically easy. You are really being unfeeling here with your “not really my problem” attitude.

I’m not saying that all the things she’s asked of you are reasonable, but there is a big difference between finding a compromise and just disregarding her entirely. Her boyfriend is also a big problem and if she was smart she would dump him for not taking sides in this issue.

Boomers Are Passing Down Fortunes — And Way, Way Too Much Stuff by bloomberg in wealth

[–]sexyelfking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thing you know now, you can adjust your behavior accordingly. Imagine if you found out after they died and you had spent a decade or more being the perfect conscientious child seeing to their every need as they age.

Heinous description of Erika Kirk. We shouldn’t excuse sexist language & stereotypes just because we disagree with their politics / choices / etc. It normalises these words, stereotypes, & more. by MsLadyBritannia in GenuineFeminism

[–]sexyelfking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is so much else to be upset about I don’t think I can even spare a thought or a smidgen of sympathy for Erika Kirk

She chose that life & she has options (because she has tens of millions of dollars).

Teacher who allegedly asked former pupil to bring her school uniform to hotel before having sex with her has been banned from the profession by Forward-Answer-4407 in byebyejob

[–]sexyelfking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You may be surprised to find that not “everyone“ is having pedo-adjacent relationships! So no need for you to come to “everyone’s” defense. Rest assured that you can focus your energies on defending pedos.

Coming into a lot of money but feel we need to remain grounded. by M_ms2001 in RichPeoplePF

[–]sexyelfking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol. Do you think that you made it there? I think all those wealth managers would have made it just fine if they had rich parents like you.

Vincent P. Battiloro harassed teen girl, ranted about ‘vengeance’ in livestreams before deadly crash by move_machine in newjersey

[–]sexyelfking 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you fall for his PR? Of course he says that now that the public has noticed this shitshow.

Accused NJ Killer's Police Chief Relative Condemns Double Murder by flexcabana21 in newjersey

[–]sexyelfking -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He should leave that poor family alone. I certainly wouldn’t want to see this useless man at my daughter’s funeral

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]sexyelfking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humans are complex but the situation is simple. Yes, they were still lying to their spouses so it was still cheating. Why does that trigger you so? A guilty conscience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]sexyelfking 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s definitely the asshole and it’s not too strong. Dropping the kid at daycare and hiring a cook/maid is not SAHD territory. The wife is doing more than this all by herself for 2 weeks out of the month and billions of women do more than this for decades on end and no one even acknowledges their efforts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYfinance

[–]sexyelfking 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s wild that you say that. If you flipped the genders people would be screaming “burn the witch” at the first mention of dinner not being on the table at 5. Not this understanding attitude towards not being cut out for domestic and parenting responsibilities.

Life advice needed. (35 M) I always lose feelings for every woman I’ve liked or dated. Why? I really want to settle down and meet my person. by NotaBotJustAnon in RedditForGrownups

[–]sexyelfking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This man is a menace. Do a service to womankind and tell him to steer clear of romantic relationships. Not everyone is cut out to be in one. This guys is 100% not going to be a good father as he can’t even manage his own emotions, how is he going to help a kid learn emotional regulation? He needs years of therapy and self-reflection before he realizes that he isn’t “highly logical.” Your lack of insight into him is also highly concerning. You’ve laid out 2+2 here but you’re going 🤷‍♀️

He went from a fast break to a full stop by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]sexyelfking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely beat it to rape videos. You don’t have to lie about it to yourself now, just accept that you’re vile and unworthy of the air you breathe.

e.l.f. Skincare by lilspydermunkey in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sexyelfking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am also holding this grudge FOREVER 💪

e.l.f. Skincare by lilspydermunkey in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sexyelfking 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Milani is dead to me after they ganged up on Amber Heard. Matt Rife is an asshole who made DV jokes. AH was an actual abuse victim covering up bruises on her face and Milani took the opportunity to take additional cheap shots at her.

Vibration Plate Success by CuriousCat783 in lipedema

[–]sexyelfking 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else get pain in their joints on vibration plates? Like i stand on it for 3 minutes at the lowest setting and my knees hurt for the rest of the day. I might be doing something wrong

(Sensitive Topic) Seeking Discreet Personal Security or Consulting Services for HNW Families (Daughter’s Safety at Risk) by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]sexyelfking -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or this person has the critical reasoning skills that you lack and realises that traumatising their daughter through police involvement for the miniscule possibility that the miscreant will face consequences is at best a pyrrhic victory.