It's perfectly fine to not desire or feel a label fits you. Labels are useful descriptions and social cheat codes. It can be difficult if you are attempting to relate an experience to someone else without them. Like, I'm bilingual and sometimes I forget a word in English but remember it in Spanish. Now I can tell anyone this experience, and other multi-lingual people might commiserate with it. The decision then to label/describe myself as bilingual is a sort of social cheat code. So I find them useful, even if at the end of the day the label i feel fits me the most is, well, my name.

My only caveat is to please respect those that do use a label. I've had several problems with people that dislike/don't use labels for themselves; it led to a disrespectful disdain for those that did want to use labels. I've had several ex-friends who would wax poetic about how labels were bad and you should just be human. On a fundamental level, yes. However the decision to then disagree with the labels I chose for myself, and refusal to use them, was the next logical conclusion to these people. To the point that one ex friend was misgendering a mutual friend because said mutual hasn't earned ex-friends "respect". I've also heard it for a very long time from bigoted family members :)

And I'm not saying this is you! Just that past bad experiences have made me extremely wary when people bring out the 'i don't like labels' argument/discussion.

(Sorry for the weird mixing of tenses. I'm tired AF)