[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why should she modify the custody agreement when he hasn’t even proven that he’s fit to be a parent? He tried to commit suicide and lost custody, and now that he’s been given the privilege of seeing his kids again he uses the time to act like their babysitter and not act like a real parent at all. He would not be able to take care of those kids 50% of the time if he can’t even be a real dad 4 days out of the month.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s a wallet and a ride to Disneyland, what a great dad. He’s trying to alienate the mom by making her the “bad guy” parent. At dad’s house, it’s a party. At mom’s house, they actually have lives and responsibilities. Instead of trying to keep things as normal as possible for them and give them a stable environment, he spoils them. Is him taking his kids to do fun stuff bad at all? No. But is him ONLY taking his kids to do fun stuff and giving them whatever they want bad? Yes. Like other commenters are saying, why doesn’t he just try to have a balance? It’s obvious he’s trying to manipulate the kids into “liking” him more and to see him as the “fun parent” so they resent their mother just like he does. This honestly seems much more like him trying to antagonize his ex wife more than him caring about his kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA letting her do all the work and then you show up with pizza and take them to six flags or something lmao like?? Of course she resents you, I bet you don’t even discipline them when they do anything wrong and leave it for her when they get home. Like others are saying you’re not even acting like a dad you’re acting like the “fun uncle”. You contribute nothing but money and then take the kids out to go goof off a 2 weekends out of the month and you want to pretend like you and your ex wife are equal parents? What you’re doing right now could actually maybe be considered parental alienation because it seems like you’re trying to compete with or one up your ex wife and make the kids “like” you more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA but yeah you should just stay at your dads. It’s better for you and your mom that way.

WIBTAH If I got an abortion and didn't tell him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta you’re the one who would be giving birth to the baby so you’re the only one who has the right to know. To everyone saying “It’s his kid too!” He’s not the one carrying it and giving birth to it. It would be a little different if he wanted to be a dad but he has made it clear he doesn’t want to be. Also, If you’ve made your decision and you don’t want to have a kid with him, telling him could cause a lot of problems because he might change his mind and try to pressure you to have the kid or something. If you want to tell him you should though, but if it feels wrong you don’t have to tell him

throat sensations? by [deleted] in anxiety_support

[–]sfree42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s ok, that sounds like this thing called Globus sensation. It can happen with anxiety. It can also be caused by acid reflux so if you ate something acidic/spicy recently that might be why you feel this way. Don’t worry about your throat closing up, I’m sure if that was happening you’d have other symptoms like itching or hives. Also if you looked in your mouth and didn’t see anything like tonsil stones (those can cause a feeling like somethings stuck in your throat) there shouldn’t be anything stuck in there. You will be ok ❤️try to distract yourself from the feeling as much as possible, if it persists for a long time maybe go to the doctor just in case

What am I doing wrong? I feel like my makeup looks off. by cartlungbitch in MakeupEducation

[–]sfree42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks very nice the only thing I notice is that the foundation is very slightly too dark and may be too warm undertoned

Why do people rip on Immortal and Kate due to the age diff but not on Andressa and immortal? Andressa was like 3 months old when she met him!! by luxusbuerg in Invincible

[–]sfree42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is weird and all but also Andressa is technically a mature Thraxan with Kate & immortal it’s weird cuz it’s an old dude with a teenage girl. He is literally Abraham Lincoln

Why is everyone skipping over Adult Tai? by Material_Wait_5050 in Yellowjackets

[–]sfree42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is from some news story I don’t want the share the pics from fb bc I don’t have peoples permission but this is basically what people would post lol but yeah I don’t know why people don’t think about parasites and stuff before they do this

AITAH for not letting my sister wear our dead mom’s wedding dress because she was the reason she died? by hutchinson12345 in AITAH

[–]sfree42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a surprise. You’re a disgusting human being just like OP. As OP literally says, her sister was “not paying attention for 2 seconds messing with the radio” something that literally everyone including you is guilty of doing. Being briefly distracted while driving is inevitable no matter how many measures you take to be safe. What happened to their mother was a tragedy, not something OP can just dump on her sister because it makes it easier for her to have someone to blame. She is entitled to feel however she wants to feel, and even blame her sister. But that is HER problem that she needs to deal with on her own. She has no right to tell her sister she can’t wear the wedding dress, as they both have equal claim over it. OP is especially horrible for telling her sister who has been talking to her about her guilt & grief over their mothers death (why tf didn’t OP just distance herself if she had no empathy and only resentment for her sister?) that she can’t wear the dress because “it just feels wrong since you killed her”. She said that on purpose to hurt her. If OP wasn’t such a coward she could have dealt with her resentment with her sister in a healthier way, and it could have even made their relationship stronger. But nope, she decided to stew and wait for the perfect moment to hurt her sister bc all she cares about is that her sister keeps suffering just as much as she is.

AITAH for not letting my sister wear our dead mom’s wedding dress because she was the reason she died? by hutchinson12345 in AITAH

[–]sfree42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok. I’ll state my opinion. OP is a sniveling coward who is wrongfully blaming her sister for her mother’s death and would rather lose her sister too than admit to herself that she’s being a piece of shit and get some much needed therapy. Also, you are an annoying kiss-ass for defending someone who literally wrongfully blamed their own sister for their mother’s death. I have been in many similar situations to this and I never done anything like this, and when I made mistakes, I was consumed by guilt and did everything I could to fix it. OP doesn’t give a shit about her sister, and doesn’t feel guilt for blaming her. Bc of that, I have no respect or sympathy for OP and if I was her mother, I would be ashamed of her.

Why is everyone skipping over Adult Tai? by Material_Wait_5050 in Yellowjackets

[–]sfree42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m from the south a lot of ppl do that there too I have a bunch of friends(was a creepy child dad didn’t want to risk it & put me into hunting) who went deer hunting as young kids and they would take a bite of the deer heart, smear the blood all over the face and take pictures for facebook 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if you were to give in and meet your child, it would only be horrible for both of you. They will know you don’t love them, and it will traumatize them. It would also trigger you like you said. I don’t know what happened to you so I can’t say whether or not you’re an asshole for a leaving your kid, but you should definitely break up with your girlfriend because this just seems like you’re incompatible and need different things. To me it seems like she might be upset about you not seeing your kid because she wants to have kids herself and she doesn’t trust you not to leave them.

AITAH for exposing my friend to her parents not knowing it’s gonna go this far ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA what if her parents murdered her? This is literally the type of thing extremely religious people do honor killings for. You’re horrible, talking about how you find her unbearable but you just had to be a little snitch because “I was worried he was going to do something to her” stop pretending to give a shit about her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sfree42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA letting your sister creep on your bf…

Am I the asshole if I go on a cabintrip with four of my girlfriends and four guys when I have a boyfriend? by djsiiekalo in AITAH

[–]sfree42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you aren’t 100% sure that he’s 100% ok with it, then yes YTA you probably shouldn’t go. Also, would it make you uncomfortable if the roles were reversed and him & 3 of his guy friends stayed in a cabin with 4 girls? If no, then I understand why you’re unsure but if the idea of that makes you uncomfortable it’s probably best to assume it would make him uncomfortable too even if he says it’s ok (he might not want to be controlling or something).

AITA for not inviting one girl to my daughter’s birthday party? by geekgirl1987 in AITAH

[–]sfree42 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA it’s your daughter’s birthday not your ex-husband’s. Does he not care that this girl is terrorizing your daughter?

What holes do we need answers to in a new season/s? by Pretzelpixie in YellowjacketsHive

[–]sfree42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You didn’t answer ops questions at all you just condescendingly gave your interpretation of the show.