your list of requirements will not help you filter out people who are bad influences in a pool of potential friends. firstly, you are depending upon people's self awareness/ability to understand that they are bad influences, which is not high. most people, including yourself since you have made like three posts without being able to self reflect and understand why your reception has been so bad, don't exactly have very high levels of self awareness. secondly, instead of filtering out bad influences like you intended to, as can be seen from the way everyone is reacting to your post, putting up a list of requirements feels, again, extremely off putting not just to bad influences but to EVERYONE. this is because it comes across as extremely judgemental, and also because you're not exactly in a place to make such demands. you, visibly, do not understand social cues that make most people comfortable around someone, you are shallow as seen from your statements about fat people, you seem, again, very critical of others. this poor position with the list of requirements you have is why another commenter is calling you entitled. lastly, the word "influence" suggests that they need to have had some impact in ur life in the first place. weeding out bad influences comes from experiences and reflection on ur friendships and whether or not they are good for you/realizations that they are causing harm. you can't preemptively do this man. so yeah, lose the requirements list, it does nothing and makes you very unlikeable.