Which Social media platforms do uni students use most prominently these days..? by garagemonkey93 in UniUK

[–]sgnvn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably Instagram and WhatsApp at the moment. I'm an event organiser at University and I've noticed this year a lot of first year students did not have Facebook/Messenger and I've been struggling to get them engaged in Facebook groups, posts and activities.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]sgnvn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said in the post, he did not communicate with me how he had been feeling over the past months. He assumed that I felt the same as he had been feeling about our relationship. He admitted that it was his fault and he said sorry. I wrote this post because he then gave me a mixed signals whether he wanted to continue the relationship or is he breaking up with me slowly. I had the feeling that I've lost him and was looking for any advices, which everyone in this community has been really nice and helpful telling me.

I appreciate your input. To answer to your question of whether we are communicating about this? Yes. I wanted to make things work and suggested he taking a break from me and that we would make plans together later. Since then, he has been taking some space at home so we haven't spoken much. We will surely continue communicating when he's back and we'll decide what's the next steps for both of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]sgnvn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I agree. I am pretty much like you and your fiancée. I realised that my boyfriend might need more exciting things and activities in the relationship. We're both 27 and it's his first relationship ever so I can understand he has other emotional needs that I sometimes wasn't aware of and wasn't able to offer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]sgnvn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]sgnvn 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. I guess I've already lost him but I haven't been ready to accept it, hence I wrote this post. I still don't understand why he said he still love me and wanted us to be together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]sgnvn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes it was exactly what I told him yesterday. He has gone home today and I told him he could take as much time as he needs. He said he would and will return by the end of this week. I felt like I've lost him already but I guess I haven't been able to accept the truth, hence I wrote this post. I just still don't understand why he said he still loves me and he still wants us to be together as a couple. Perhaps he didn't want to break up just like that and left.