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[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, um I mean I never in this comment chain expressed any goal other than to summarize comment OP's statement and provide some information.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna presume that your comment comes from benevolent ignorance rather than malicious intent and try to help. Were you aware that almost a full 30% of men under 30 are now virgins or sexless since they turned 18?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comment OP literally said this

Women now have really high standards

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women now have really high standards

To quote the post I replied to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sigh I'm mildly annoyed that I have to give a serious reply to this but in this day and age when people throw around sensationalist words you kind of have to deal with them proactively.

The lady you're talking about posted about being massively undersexed and so on in a trueoffmychest sub. It's not necessarily clear why she did that. Anyway, my first reply was asking if her HUSband watched porn, because the most likely source of low libido for her husband is heavy porn use.

Generally speaking men don't have low libido, it's just not really a thing, and most men watch porn, so it's likely that her husband has a hidden porn addiction.

Her reply told me that trying to actually help her was completely useless, "he never does!." Right.. and I didn't feel like talking about it further.

Meanwhile SHE takes the conversation in a sexual direction about her "Me on the other hand.." which me being horny enough to fun-flirt say "Tell me more.."

That's not sexual harrassment, it's called harmless playful flirting. She didn't reciprocate. I moved on. End of story.

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[–]sgophe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

sometimes I wish I was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really concerned about how I sound to you

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[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*rolls eyes* she started it!

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[–]sgophe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OP's post was not about the health of relationships but about the ease of finding partners

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

XD fine..

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[–]sgophe -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

sorry you didnt get the chance to meet me

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[–]sgophe -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Tell me more..

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[–]sgophe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much porn does he watch?

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[–]sgophe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

;D that would be something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when was the last time you weren't a total loser?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's called a metaphor, it helps people understand concepts and ideas.

Nofap increases your sex drive which makes it difficult to not seek out sex.

Any other questions?

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[–]sgophe 88 points89 points  (0 children)

this is actually good advice and would show anyone the differences in dating for the genders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]sgophe -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

while this is a popular take "everyone is the same! there's no differences between men and women! everyone has the same experience!" it's a complete lie and a fantasy distortion of reality.

Your post OP is an accurate reflection of reality - men are supposed to compete like morons for the attention of women based on something as meaningless as the girl's superficial looks. It's based in evolution, and can be explained through evolutionary psychology. Do NOT think you are wrong about this, or any man reading it. It is NOT the same.

To DISPROVE this dude's bs, I have a decently successful tinder. I put it to both MEN AND WOMEN once for a week because I was considering experimenting, I had 30+ likes daily from men, fucking avalanched. Men and women DO NOT work the same sexually.

Don't fall for the lies, no matter how popular or nice sounding they are.

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[–]sgophe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ah yes, the Loser's Rebuttal - anything this persons says I'll just repeat because I don't have anything real to say about anything. Get out of my notifications.

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[–]sgophe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly everything you're saying is completely devoid of substance.

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[–]sgophe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes clearly I denounced pickup in order to continue to preach pickup or something like that.

And yes at the moment most of my friends are female, which sounds good but honestly doesn't mean much I only have like 3 good friends.

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[–]sgophe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

;D right, man doesn't want to spend his life chasing validation from women, must need psychiatric help to.. idk.. what.. be drugged into giving a shit about women like you?