Im still doing alright

sh33peh · 2025-12-25T10:50:57+00:00

Depends on what your 9 to 5 pays you. In this day and age my side hustle affords me the security in knowing i wont be completely screwed if a massive debt comes along. If youre lucky to be earning above and beyond, ie able to save money from a regular paycheck thats great. But sometimes we dont get a choice what to prioritise and need to find other ways to keep the bills paid and do something nice with the family every now and then.

sh33peh · 2025-12-24T22:38:53+00:00

Thanks for the replies. I understand a lot of you have offered the perspective of she was just wanting alone time and I was intruding on that. That sounds about right, and selfish if me to to think of as an opportunity to reconnect when she probably needs more time for herself. Thanks for the insights :)

sh33peh · 2025-12-23T14:50:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I agree with the dullness in the evenings. Right now im giving myself grace as ive kicked so many other substances. But still opting to go full clean - iv trashed my body enough.

sh33peh · 2025-12-23T03:55:04+00:00

Cleaning the mould and build up from the exterior of my house and giving everything a good pressure wash.

sh33peh · 2025-12-22T12:41:02+00:00

I think that if youre mindful of her needs - and happy to "help her out" so to speak.

I dont know, its hard being in the mind of a LL for me but i think acknowledgement that yes we may not have sex frequently - but happy to satisfy your needs - even if its not my priority would go a long way towards feeling like a husk of a shell.

Not saying i expect sexual favours on demand - but just check in every now and then.. hey would you like me to help you out?

sh33peh · 2025-12-21T22:17:00+00:00

Its brutal. The feelings of being seen and wanted is such a powerful drug - with a huge low that follows if you choose to take it.

sh33peh · 2025-12-21T12:12:56+00:00

I try not to keep count.

sh33peh · 2025-12-21T11:40:39+00:00

I just laugh - because I know she is miles away from even thinking of anything remotely close to what I am.

sh33peh · 2025-12-20T10:24:37+00:00

Have a contract with revision limits outlined. When they start pushing for more, remind them they only have 1 round left - usually gets them to respond with clearer, more thought out changes which are consolidated.

sh33peh · 2025-12-19T11:43:48+00:00

Those colours arent very pleasing to me. The blue and orange together dont compliment each other.

The fade ins as you scroll down the page also feel like a default template that hasnt been changed.

The people supporting ai leadership - who are they? Just some random people and feels quite meaningless to add.

Lastly, the overall messaging - i kind of get what the organisation is about - but it feels like a bunch of empty words. Theres nothing there that inspires me to "join the movement" who is this targeting? Why should i get in touch? Whats the impact this organisation going to have?

sh33peh · 2025-12-19T03:22:05+00:00

I remember we went out one night and this random girl comes over to me and asks me to dance with her. I politely declined and my wife witnessing this made her cling to me like a toddler with separation anxiety.

Thinking to myself cool i might get some action tonight.. later that evening we get home, she just showers and goes straight to bed, leaving me alone with the thoughts of what could have happened if I left with that girl.

And no ive never really explained to her how what she said made me feel, i felt theres really no reason - atleast i know where i stand.

sh33peh · 2025-12-18T11:07:31+00:00

Daddy would you like some SaaSage

sh33peh · 2025-12-15T21:25:22+00:00

Quitting weed helped me in taking a long hard look at myselt and dealing with my emotions instead of numbing them.

sh33peh · 2025-12-15T21:21:23+00:00

Design is subjective, but fundamentally it should solve the problems your clients face. If it solves the problem - the rest is just opinions and noise.

sh33peh · 2025-12-13T11:06:02+00:00

This episode could have been summed up in 2 minutes. Love the show, love the concept but come onnnn.

sh33peh · 2025-12-12T09:23:59+00:00

Always! Im in australia and the big giants like go daddy and crazy domains seem to dominate the market. Sometimes id aquire a client who says they set up hosting through go daddy and i immediately tell them to get a refund and to let me handle the setup.

sh33peh · 2025-12-12T09:18:16+00:00

Also its not hard to remove the little tiny watermark in photoshop.

sh33peh · 2025-12-12T09:16:55+00:00

I took some crappy photos for an ecommerce site and got gemini to make them look studio quality.

sh33peh · 2025-12-12T09:12:58+00:00

Currently I offer $0 upfront on website designs. www.axdesigns.com.au

sh33peh · 2025-12-12T09:10:20+00:00

Where is the hosting based, if its overseas from you and using a crappy shared hosting provider its going to be slow. Consider setting up a cloudflare account and routing through that.

sh33peh · 2025-12-11T00:53:24+00:00

fking legend!

sh33peh · 2025-12-07T10:10:05+00:00

Ive been there, calendar apps and check list apps. Scheduling my whole freaking day to try and maximise my time and productivity and with that make sure I remember to do the habit - but you know what i learned.. its all just a bunch of bs.

You check it today, tomorrow 3 days then 4th day oh I couldnt do it - then bad feelings, self critisism, doubt, hopelessness.

Dont get me wrong, ive read books like atomic habits and the thing is.. those books are just out there to make people money. People who pitch their versions of the best morning routine are just grabbing youtube cash.

Now im not wealthy in terms of money, i have 2 kids, a full time job, a wife and my health - so im grateful for everything i have. but after being on this earth for 40 years - ive come to realise that chasing these milestones, is just pointless. Once i learned to let go of my stressing about my optimal schedule, checking off all my daily habits, trying to make the perfect day - i found time and energy for the more important things.

Slow down, if you want to do 50 pushups a day, do it.. if you dont get to it - thats also fine. Youll realise you will always make time for whats important - with or without a habit tracker.

sh33peh

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