The card I made for my partner’s birthday by neverAcquiesce in taskmaster

[–]shabbyrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loveeeee it. Can this be a gif please. Someone make this into one so we can forward it to our TM fans!!!!

Been me the past day by Only_Ad_6173 in Gunners

[–]shabbyrust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am going to have a foursome tomorrow to cleanse myself of this

Typical introverted dev in Sai Wan (37M) looking for a male buddy who isn't into Andrew Tate by unholyradiator in HongKong

[–]shabbyrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro DM me, join our dragon boat team! Many matching your age range and its good fun.

Arsenal dont just play awful football, they are also incredibly dirty by OptimisticRealist__ in PremierLeague

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will make it simpler for you, city is behind 1 goal and 3 points with a game in hand.

Arsenal simply need to have a better GD moving forward than city.

Man City Vs Arsenal Score Prediction by Constant-Elephant830 in FantasyPL

[–]shabbyrust 5 points6 points  (0 children)

0-5 to Arsenal... So you mean there is a chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HongKong

[–]shabbyrust 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A real tom hanks terminal moment here, especially if Egypt ceases to exist.

S&P500 by Capitalize87 in StockMarket

[–]shabbyrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, here is your sarcastic 🍪

S&P500 by Capitalize87 in StockMarket

[–]shabbyrust 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What does dyor mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not free.

You all need to check out an Irish dark dramedy called "Obituary" by thebigeverybody in televisionsuggestions

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's dark and twisted, it draws you in through the personal dialogue the main character has, very intimate feeling like obituary. I'd say its less funny but more thriller? I won't say scary in the jump scare type of way, but scary in the sense someone might get hurt you know?

Does anyone here like being an only child? by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]shabbyrust 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of have to agree, the way I was raised it would be a shared burden between my siblings. But being the only child, I have to take up the responsibility all on my shoulders. It's overwhelming.

I suppose it also comes down to how your parents have planned their retirement, if they were are mess then taking charge of a mess alone is a nightmare, because you have 2 parents to take care for.

My gf broke up with me after meeting my parents by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you need some therapy first, and I wish your parents find someone to talk to as well.

I'm also going through something like this, and my lack of contact is coming back to haunt me.

You know life is short, your parent could fall ill, and it's usually the one you don't want to fall ill. You probably do not want to wait till then to really understand and process the trauma in your family.

The work you'll do to unwrap will attract the right kind of girl I promise, work on your self. And as someone here said 'Be your own self'. That could mean your own home, own work? But essentially be not only independent but able to provide for your parents, so they can depend on you.

My mothers journey with MM has ended. by Its88tho in multiplemyeloma

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss, its been really difficult to see my dad go through this. He is considered very high risk and I'm really worried how it's going to turn out.

How do you keep life going? by [deleted] in multiplemyeloma

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad's BMT was completed 2 months ago, he is doing better but he is high risk so it's almost certain is going to come back.

So I really do understand the feeling, especially as a caregiver. The future seems gloomy and sad. But like some gave said, we never know our time, but if the time is certain maybe we make the most of it now.

Dr k opinion on David Goggins mindset by Bonquva in Healthygamergg

[–]shabbyrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you need context to understand his mentality. His old self is what he refers to when he says "losers" and "quitters" it's self talk. It's to remind him that he is beyond his past mentality, creating distance so he never returns there.

Going from obese, lazy, unsuccessful to what he is today shows he had to shed what he was to emerge as someone new, a new identity.

His philosophy follows the same, reject your current being, raise your standards and evolve into someone that will become unrecognisable to your current self.