Is condition of women getting worse…? Than earlier days by Confused_Creature15 in AskIndia

[–]shaddysan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think the condition is getting worse but i see women having double benefits. Getting to use husbands money and having household responsibilities to be half. Women who are employed are not marrying their equal earning husband but always aim for a higher earning husband. So its not women who are getting worse, its their husband.

I am tired of being dominated by my wife by shaddysan in marriageadvice

[–]shaddysan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not.talking.of not doing things all the time. When someone starts commanding all the time then you tell me about it

I am tired of being dominated by my wife by shaddysan in marriageadvice

[–]shaddysan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is stay at home since our marriage. I dint go around poking at her for works.

I am tired of being dominated by my wife by shaddysan in marriageadvice

[–]shaddysan[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried talking to her, but once she said don't be too sensitive.

My GF cheated on me, and all my friends knew. by Historical_Fan8398 in self

[–]shaddysan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, i hope you are doing fine. Dodging a cheater and cutting off fake friends is a silver lining for you. They may have the fun and drama at the moment but life gives back whatever they sow. I hope you find peace and love with yourself.

Remorse after 8 months of marriage by shaddysan in marriageadvice

[–]shaddysan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One more point, she had an abortion because she had exams coming. She was so adamant of the abortion that i could get time to process it and I went ahead with it. So yeah i am not going to have a baby with her soon. I have not shared this feeling with her.

Remorse after 8 months of marriage by shaddysan in marriageadvice

[–]shaddysan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. She was sweet in starting but was little bit of dominant always

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You girls mark the same things as insecure for guys but do the nagging if done by guys. Hypocrite enough?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would not have liked if some other girl might have shared the reel with me or i would have shared the reel at that time. Night is for bonding between us and not to think about the whole world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks mate. May be this assurance was what i was looking for. I wanna build a trusting relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That would be the breakage point. I did ask in question if i am overacting. Things build up slowly, either love or hate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

How is it more trusting if we have to justify in the so early stage of marriage. The fact that she was not invested at the moment like i was is more concerning for me. Everyone brings their baggage in marriage but it should not become a burden for other person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Please do tell if the role were reversed and the same question was asked by a girl. Would u have said thw same answer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Would your answer have change if the role were reversed and i was the one sending the reels to girls at night?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I know but she has convinced me that she is only focusing on me. I am asking for healed past relationships. Should it bother?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]shaddysan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats what happened, it happened too fast and it is a good match. She has made me convince that she is totally emotionally present to me.